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My wedding planning trend has been to completely agonize over one thing at a time. Lately it was flowers. I've spent the past week on fiftyflower.com constantly, trying to figure out what flowers to buy, how to stay in budget, and get enough flowers. I had two different spreadsheets to work the numbers. Yikes.
I've finally got it figured out, though, so now I can move on to the next agonizing decision! :)
Right now? Fitting into my dress! It has been such a long and stressful time trying to lose weight. I lost about 30+ pounds, and my dress just barely fits... it is a 6, and when I met FI I was a 12. I hate losing weight, it is stressful!
Right now, finding and booking a caterer! This is one of the few big decisions we haven't made yet!
This is odd, but I'm most concerned about crying through my whole day! I'm a big time crier, and what's worse is I'm an ugly crier! My eyes get bloodshot and puffy and I get hives. Should make for some nice pictures, right?
I keep having dreams about FORGETTING something.
One dream involved forgetting shoes, so I had to run out of the wedding (in Manhattan) to Lord & Taylor and buy some.
One dream involved forgetting to make the speech I prepared.
One dream involved forgetting my "something borrowed" which is an important heirloom.
Anyhooooo, my biggest stress is about forgetting one of the many small details that makes the whole. ... stress brings funny dreams..:-)
I'm stressed out about this guest list!!! My RSVP's are due back in 2 days, and less than half of them have been returned! I just want to know how big of a party I'm planning. :(
@cbee: me too! I'm procrastinating about making my first fitting appointment because I'm worried I still won't fit into the dress yet.
COST! and everything looking great. And everyone having a good time!
My wedding is in three weeks, and our final counts are due tomorrow. Right now I'm stressed out because my future sister-in-law has decided her and her husband will no longer be attending. A few weeks ago she made some nasty comment to me, and my fiance stuck up for me. They ended up in a huge aruguement, about things unrelated to what she snapped at me for, and now she says she will not attend his wedding. I feel so bad for him, but find it completely ridiculous that she is that childish. Now without her and her husband coming, it changes the seating chart, etc... I'm so ready for the wedding to be over.
Right now? Stressing out about cost and food! But I know it is going to be awesome in the end.
I'm spazzing about the favors, which is so dumb!!
I'm also concerned about my makeup trial. I didn't get exactly what I thought I wanted, and now I need to buck up and tell the truth that I want something different.
I'm also super stressed with work - I got a great promotion but it's VERY busy and I'm in that learning curve - and there's some office politics going on with another department. So, needless to say, my week long honeymoon is looking pretty fantastic right about now!
The timeline.
The first dance (a big choreographed to-do)
The food being good
addressing invites and getting table cards made... korean ppl do not RSVP, they show up uninvited, and im all hectic on how everything will come together on the day of...
@MrsMcGyro- I am scared of the same thing! I am afraid if I start crying, I may not stop, and I'll have to hug FI during the vows. I look so ugly when I cry, and if I start, I don't think I'll stop!
@cbee:Congrats on your weight loss you STUD-ETTE!
That's my major stress too. I would like to lose 20 pounds, I would be lower than I have ever been, but I would be so proud of myself and confident in pictures! I have a lot of time, but my body is very stubborn.
I am stressed that I invited too many people! I have 34 yes replies and the only no is from a plus 1 that I was hoping a friend would not invite! We can fit 100 if we really squeeze, but I was hoping for 85 : (
I also would really like for my dress to come in. It would be cool to see it before the day I get married (sarcasm).
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I totally freaking out about music? Have been for awhile. What have you girls been preoccupied for tooo much time?