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    totheislnds    February 12, 2011   NC

    Today kicks off the Lenten Season. what are you giving up for lent this year?

     
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    MASPA    December 12, 2012   East Coast

    shoe shopping.

     
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    louisianablue    April 7, 2012   New York

    I'm giving up sweets. 

     
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    Steampunk Angel    September 14, 2012   Northern VA/Australia

    I'm not catholic but I partake in Lent just because lol  I'm giving up being lazy when it comes to going to the gym!  I really want to get in better shape (don't need to lose any weight just want more muscle :3)

     
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    HisIrishPrincess    March 23, 2012  

    I'm going to go to the gym, and giving up chocolate.  I'm also going to try not to be lazy and just have Pizza on Fridays when we aren't supposed to eat meat lol

     
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    totheislnds    February 12, 2011   NC

    @MASPA:  ooo tough!

    @louisianablue:  that's a good one. I gave up desserts last year -  you can do it!

    @Steampunk Angel:  that is a great one too! i've been super lazy lately when it comes to going to the gym. I think its the cold weather - ok thats just an excuse...

    I've thought about this one long and hard and have been mentally preparing myself for weeks but I am finally giving up smoking (I know its bad) so this will be the hardeset lent ever! its been a rough morning already haha.

     
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    totheislnds    February 12, 2011   NC

    @HisIrishPrincess:  not eating meat on fridays (or today!) always slips my mind. I actually had to email my husband and remind him that turkey sandwhich he packed for lunch this morning should not be eaten! haha - that is something i need to pay more attention to as well.

     
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    Gemstone    July 2011   Cincinnati

    @totheislnds:  Congrats on your big commitment! I'll be sending you good vibes. I know it will be hard, but you can do it!

    We're not Catholic, although we're Christians and we believe in the Lenten season of moderation and spiritual discipline. We're doing the same thing as Steampunk Angel and trying to go to the gym and get back into running. We got into running a couple of years ago, but I got a stress fracture in my foot and we had to stop for a while. We just haven't found the commitment to make it a regular thing since then, so that's what we're working on this season. :)

     
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    FloridaGatorBride    May 14, 2011   Florida

    Diet Soda! I guess all soda, really, but I don't drink regular so I'm not really 'giving it up'. Hubby is giving up sweet tea.

     
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    BOGB    August 18, 2012   Maryland

    i'm giving up bread and pastries and the likes....also trying to get to the gym and exercise more 

     
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    Fall_In_Love22    September 22, 2012   St. Louis

    I'm giving up regular soda. I'm seriously addicted to Dr Pepper and have betwen 1-3 sodas every day. So because I'm a b**** when I give it up totally (so my family tells me) I'm cutting back and only drinking diet Dr Pepper or Dr Pepper 10. It's going to be sooooo hard!!

     
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    farmergirl    September 29, 2012   New Hampshire

    Chocolate, mainly, and meat, but since I only recently left 14 years of vegetarianism that one doesn't really count cuz it's pretty easy. :)

    I'm also reading The Screwtape Letters and (since TSL is pretty short) a book on the Hours... last year I started a goal of finishing a religious or spiritual book during Lent and I ended up loving it - it forced me to get through a good book I wouldn't have probably read otherwise (Thomas Merton's Seven Storey Mountain) and kept me a lot more mindful than I am by just giving something up!

     
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    totheislnds    February 12, 2011   NC

    @Gemstone:  Thanks! it's going to be tough - my poor husband! haha. I've always wanted to get into running but i've never experience that runner's high yet. i try and work out and do a bunch of cardio but just straight running has always been difficult for me - one of these days i'll give it a serious go. I'd love to do a 5k before im 30.

    @FloridaGatorBride:  @Fall_In_Love22:  my husband was a coke drinker - like 2 or 3 a day and he gave it up for lent last year and now he only drinks coke ever once in a while. it was a great change for him!  - ooo sweet tea would be hard!

    @BOGB:  bread would be so difficult for me! but thats is exactly what lent is about - i have faith you can do it!

     

     
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    totheislnds    February 12, 2011   NC

    @farmergirl:  I love the idea doing something to try and grow in your faith as opposed to giving something up. maybe i shoudl try and DO something too as well as give up something.

     
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    Mrs.Enne    January 9, 2010   NC

    I am also giving up chocolate, DH is giving up coffee. It's going to be interesting in our house the next 40 days...!

     
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    TopazWedding    June 9, 2012  

    I'm not giving up anything per se but I am trying to get rid of a bad habit, swearing, it's so unlady like for me. And sometimes I just sound like a sailor, it's awful. 

     
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    orvis18    August 12, 2011   Boston, Ma

    I'm planning to give up sweet tarts. Doesn't sound like a lot but since I've been pregnant, I've been eating waaaay too many of them. I think it's probably a good idea if I cut back for a while :) I can't give up candy all together though because I just crave it too much!

     
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    totheislnds    February 12, 2011   NC

    @Mrs.Enne:  chocolate and coffee!! that would be near impossible - but yet again...thats what lent is about.

    @TopazWedding:  i feel you! i curse like a sailor too - that one will be tough. but worth it. smoking, cursing...i may as well be a pirate.

    @orvis18:  I love sweet tarts!

     
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    farmergirl    September 29, 2012   New Hampshire

    @totheislnds:  I have always loved that too but never could figure out how to do it ... promising to be "more positive" or "nicer to my sister" etc etc never worked for me, haha - I just couldn't remember to stay with it. It's so much easier to have something tangible (which I think is why giving something up works so well and I'll still do that). The book I only figured out because our rector mentioned that he does that last year in a sermon and I was like hmmm, now there's an idea!  

     
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    CallmeC    October 5, 2013   South

    I am going to give up my lazy ways and get back into running. I already gave up soda ( for the most part) and candy still from last year. Amazing to think I kicked my soda habit because of Lent! I am also going to try to be kinder to those around me. That is not a " giving up " but I think doing something as opposed to just giving up help keeps the mind on the real goal of the season. I have a habit of being in my own world and I need to engage and lift up those around me instead of being so focused inward. 

     
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    MrsRuby    June 2011  

    Soda.

    Ive been 2 weeks without it so far! Hopefully Lent will help me kick it for good!

     
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    HappierKate    September 29, 2012  

    Soda, stuffed pasta, eating out at restaurants, and using my credit card except for buying gas to keep it in use.

    I'm also trying to pray a rosary a day and walk every day, even if it's just for five minutes.

    And I'm going to go to church every Sunday because I'm a bad Catholic and skip Mass all the time.

     
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    mrs_g.mck    July 14, 2012   Stoneham, MA

    I'm giving up "recreational" shopping --- meaning I can still make purchases for our home, the wedding and gifts. But no more "oooh that shirt is pretty/I want that lipgloss/need those shoes!" kind of shopping. This will probably be the hardest thing for me, I seriously shop almost every.single.day, but I think the savings will be significant and I need to be challenged by something :) 

     
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    Kenic315    April 21, 2012   Charlotte, North Carolina

    I'm going to take up going to the gym more instead of giving up something.  So, maybe I've giving up laziness?  I've actually been doing really well, so I guess it's more of a "keep up the good work" kinda thing.

     
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    AprilJo2011    April 9, 2011  

    From a religious point; how does 'going to the gym more often' match the spirit of lent, if lent is a time for "prayer, penance, sacrifice, and good works" in preparation of Easter?  I'm not trying to be snarky, I'm just curious.

     
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    Julesb81    June 11, 2011   Olympia Washington

    i'm giving up a few things. I'm giving up wine *TEAR*, going out to eat (expect for celebrations like Birthday's), and giving up 2 meals a day. Well big meals, We are only having a small portion or a supliment shake instead during those meals. We dont want to be unhealthy but it's a type of fasting for us.

     
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    HisIrishPrincess    March 23, 2012  

    @AprilJo2011:  The priest at our parish said that Lent is a time to improve things, so he encouraged us to volunteer more, get more active (he actually said going to the gym to stay healthy) are other ways to look at Lent.  He said that you usually give something up that's not healthy so why not add things that would be halthy for yourself or for your community.

     
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    mmr66    October 25, 2013  

    SO and I are doing the same things for Lent to encourage each other :)

    We are trying to get to the gym TOGETHER at least 4 times a week (I will be going 6 days a week)

    We are packing our lunches every day, and eating better - no going out!

    And finally we are  going to Church EVERY week and not making excuses :)

     

    I'm actually really excited for Lent :) 

     
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    NurseMarriedToAFarmer    August 2009  

    I’m giving up Facebook.  I spend way too much time on it.  I feel like FB allows me to judge others, and this is clearly not a Christian thing for me to do.  So, I’m going to try my darndest to give up FB and replace that with extra faith based reading (currently reading the Christian Atheist = GREAT book so far)

     
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    Ballet513    August 4, 2012   New York

    I'm giving up fried food, chips and alcohol

     
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    MrsPom    April 28, 2012   Houston, TX

    Alcohol! Will be hard... I LOVE a glass of wine at night *sigh*

     
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    couawilou    October 20, 2012   Toronto, Ontario

    I'm giving up shopping, stress and negativity, I'm going to try to be more positive and be a better person. Last year I gave up coffee and that was the hardest thing ever for me.

     
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    JulesSchnooks    July 30, 2011   Maryland

    I'm giving up giving things up for lent.

     
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    peaches13    July 9, 2011   Texas

    I'm not necessarily "giving up" anything for Lent, but I will be reading the daily Mass readings...so I guess I'm giving up time I'd play on the Internet.  I'm already on a pretty strict diet and am TTC, so that rules out a LOT.

     
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    NurseMarriedToAFarmer    August 2009  

    I’m giving up Facebook.  I spend way too much time on it.  I feel like FB allows me to judge others, and this is clearly not a Christian thing for me to do.  So, I’m going to try my darndest to give up FB and replace that with extra faith based reading (currently reading the Christian Atheist = GREAT book so far)

     
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    HappierKate    September 29, 2012  

    @JulesSchnooks:  I tried to give up homework when I was a kid.  For two weeks leading up to lent I pretended it was the best thing in the world.  Then I gravely went to my parents on Mardi Gras and said, "I've given the matter a lot of thought.  The thing I love most right now is homework, so I think I need to give it up for Lent."  They laughed me out of the room.

    I don't know why but your post dredged that memory up and it made me smile.

     
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    Liver!

     
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    couawilou    October 20, 2012   Toronto, Ontario

    I forgot to add my FI is giving up sex, that's right sex! I'm gonna go crazy Ahhhhhh lol

     
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    BethAnnG    July 28, 2012   Elkhart Lake, WI

    I'm giving up the snooze button on my alarm clock. It may sound strange-but it is a bad vice of mine that makes me late, which turns me into a cranky and driving too fast of a person so I feel like it will have such a profound postive affect on the rush rush of my life :)

     

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