Post # 1
I’m a gardener and amateur “wildflower hunter.” I love flowers with a passion. Come spring, I spend a considerable amount of time driving country roads looking for rare and beautiful wildflowers and natural wildflower fields. I am having the HARDEST time picking my bouquet!! We have an appointment with the florist on Tuesday and she told me to bring pictures of what I like. Well, right now it looks like I’ll be bringing about 75 photos. I love flowers and she is going to HATE me unless I can pick something. Not going to lie, I am having fun though!
Now your turn. What are you indecisive about? Having fun or hating it?
Post # 3
oh my god, i feel that its everything! My list of decisions yet to be made
we are having a mellow whimsical vintage-y rustic party at my parets house. They have 18 acres in Vt, about 5 of them groomed, so we are setting up different stations around the property. I have figured out the timeline of events, as well as caterer ( organic burger bar with vegan and gluten free options, and all things local ) bar, cake, dinner tent, music, and guest list, but there are some things I cant decide on. A couple inspiration pics of what Im thinking
mismatched china or Cute paper plates? Its casual-ish, and Im not concerned about pleasing paople, but I LOVE the way old floral patterns look. However, i dont want to do the dishes after, haha!
ANY comprehensive center pieces for dinner tables. I think I need to make a mock table and work on it that way
having a tent over the dance floor or risking potential rain to have dancing under the stars, which I have always dreamed of. its such a beautiful view, and we have a seperate dinner tent
my bouquet. hand picked by me or designed by a florist
i tend to get overwhelmed when collecting various glasswear for vases, too. ths goes back to the plates. Do i mismatch the china, the glass for the center pieces, or both???? ( glass vases would be clear/bottle green, )
man, writing this out and reading it makes me feel so underprepared haha
deep breaths 😉
Post # 4
- Wedding: September 2013 - B&B
I actually can’t think of anything off the top of my head that I feel indecisive about! But I totally get the feeling. I debated over bridesmaids shoes for a little while, but eventually I picked!
Post # 5
photobooth….whether or not it’s worth $1,000?
tablecloths…use my venues or spend $400-500 buying my own linens
bridesmaid gifts…how much is TOO much
photo signs…are they cheesy? do I NEED them?
Post # 6
@gelaine22: How do the venue’s tablecloths look? Is renting any cheaper?
@bndmusicfactory: I really love the idea of the plates lol!!! I love your comment and it actually made me giggle. And the thing is, we do all of this “deciding” only to change our minds later on things.
Post # 7
@sheepandbear: Renting is more expensive than buying. Most rentals around here are about $18-25 PER table. I can get the tablecloths online for about $15 each. The venue’s tablecloths are ivory damask and they are really bothering me to go with the combo of colors. I see other people’s pictures of my venue with colored tablecloths and I love it.
Below are two pictures for a comparison (both of the ballroom in my venue)
Above is the ivory^^ and this is someone that put colored tablecloths and I just LOVe how it looks!
Post # 8
@gelaine22: Oh wow. I saw the first picture and thought it was beautiful but then with the color it looks even better. The ivory kind of makes the tables look like they are hiding or shy and the color brings so much more life to the ballroom. I also cant really imagine what color of flowers would look good with the ivory because they would stand out so much more than the table… but I always have trouble visualizing things..
Do you have the budget for the tablecloths or would you rather spend it elsewhere?
Post # 9
@sheepandbear: I do have the budget but I cant get an idea of how the regular polyester tablecloths would look. ALL of the pictures from my venue (including ones where someone got colored tablecloths) have tablecloths that are damask or pintuck. I dont want to spend $25-30 per table for pintuck and I dont see damask in my colors (royal blue or bright fuschia and I dont want pink tablecloths anyway). I can make the smallest decisions into something big. FI wont even talk to me about it bc he thinks I overthink everything.
Post # 10
I am so indecisive alot lately.
- my hair – i dont know whether i want a bun or a soft loose look and whether i wasted my money on a headband
- my shoes – i got flats and im unsure about whether i should have got heels
- favors – is it worth spending $500 on personalized mini wine bottles, i’m swaying more towards chocolate love hearts at the moment.
Post # 11
@miss-stacie-2013: I’ve seen bun styles with headbands on Instagram and Pinterest and it looked great! Then later you can take it down. Best of both worlds!
Post # 12
Can’t decide on a music list for the DJ. We don’t even know where to start.
Also, I can’t decide if I LOVE or HATE school.