Post # 1
I just can’t decide… Part of me wants to feel beautiful from head to toe which means wearing sexy lacy feminine lingerie… BUT the other part of me says “wear shapewear” just because I am hyperconscious of being the center of attention. What are you wearing???
Post # 3
Because my dress is very well structured, I honestly don’t think shapewear would make that much difference for me, plus I think I’d be more comfortable without lycra from waist to knees! I don’t think I’ll be wearing a bra at all because I don’t have very much up there – I’ll just have some cups sewn into the dress itself.
Post # 5
I wore a mixture of both. Sexy corset and spanx. Well, might be that it didn’t look very sexy at all:-) But to be honest, the spanx were a very good decision but only because my thighs used to rub at each other. Didn’t really need them for shaping. So if I haven’t had the problem with my thighs, I would have definitely worn sexy lingerie.
Post # 6
I feel pretty body confident and I’ve never worn shapewear in my life, so I don’t plan to start now. Just some cute, comfortable panties for me, please!
Post # 7
I’ll probably be in some shapewear. it will be my first time wearing it.
Post # 8
@Edelweiss: I second this! Something cute and comfortable is the middle path!
Post # 9
Lingerie!!!!! I could never wear anything that would “squeeze” me..not ever..
Post # 10
I wanted to wear spanx and change to something cute at the end of the day, but FI specifically requested sexy underwear during the wedding. I don’t really need spanx though because I’m wearing a ballgown and you can’t see any of my fat areas. I just think it’s comfortable.
Post # 11
I have a structured top on my dress, and the bottom hides what it needs to…so SeXy all the way!!! 🙂
Post # 12
My dress has a very structured top and the bottom is so thick you couldn’t tell if I was wearing spanx or not. I’m gonna wear something lacy and then some bike shorts (that I take off before DH sees) so I don’t get a rash from sweaty legs rubbing against each other all afternoon and night.
Post # 13
I personally will feel sexier if I know I look good in the dress than if I know I look good under the dress, so I will be wearing spanx. My gown is a satin trumpet, and it REALLY shows ALL underwear lines if I wear anything other than spanx (I tried, trust me).
Post # 14
I actually think I may go commando… My dress is well structured enough to not need anything on top, and well, won’t it be easier to pee if I’m not wearing underware? I may also see if I can find some super breathe able panties. Gonna be hot under there!
Post # 15
I went with the practical – spanx and my crinoline – underneath, really nothing sexy. And then I changed into the sexy at the end of the night. I didn’t want my “sexy bridal” look to be all sweaty and gross. 😛
Post # 16
I have a longline bra (so kind of shapewear…definitely holds in the middle section)- and will just be wearing some cute comfy underwear!