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    cherrycoke    October 1, 2011  

    We are getting ready to build a house and I am compiling a list of things we want/would like in our new home.  I obviously have to pick & choose otherwise we'd spend wayyy over our budget, but I'm just curious to see what other people's "must-haves" are.  Try not to come up with anything crazy that would cost a fortune ;) 

    So far we have:

    -Granite everywhere (kitchen, bathrooms)

    -Jetted OR garden tub in master bath with double vanity

    -Actual laundry room

    -Mud room with "lockers"

    -Pantry

    -26' deep garage with 18'x8' door

    -2.5 baths on main level (in a ranch)

    Thanks!!

     
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    anotherbee    January 1, 1991  

    I'm interested in this thread too! We're looking at building as well!

    For me: garage (double)

    dark cabinets/floors

    extra insulation (I know...not fun...but saves $$)

    master bath/walk in closet

    bigger kids rooms than what comes standard

    that's all I can think of for right now, but we haven't started looking at all the "options" yet!

    EDIT: I also want an actual laundry room and mud room!

     
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    UpstateCait    October 7, 2011   Upstate, NY

    My must haves are...

    • Atleast 3 bedrooms but preferably 4
    • Atleast 2 bathroons but preferably 3
    • Open concept
    • Modern kitchen and baths
    • Seperate office and craft area (so a finished basement would suffice)
     
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    hisgoosiegirl    June 18, 2011  

    lots of storage and a really nice kitchen....oh, and storage in the bathroom!

     

    we're still renting, but House Hunters has given me some ideas, haha

     
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    Nicoso    August 4, 2012   Ottawa, ON

    Get a central vac system installed before the drywall goes up!!

     
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    FutureMsVW    August 4, 2012  

    we built a year ago! 

    must haves were granite, hardwood, upgraded carpets in bed rooms

    should have:

    asked for a linen closet!!! we didn't even notice we didnt have one. such a pain

    made our walk in closet bigger

     
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    moderndaisy    June 2010  

    We didn't build, but honestly the layout was most important to us. Since space is at such a premium here the location of the bathroom was crucial. It had to be private enough but not only accessible through the master bedroom or something.

    Also, having a semi-open concept kitchen was definitely a must have. I spend a lot of time cooking and I don't like to feel shut out, so we had to have it open slightly to the living room. I didn't want it totally open though since I still wanted the kitchen to be a separate room.

    I say concentrate on where you want things and save on materials like cabinets, hardware, fixtures, etc.

     
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    beargoose    October 13, 2012   Greenville, SC

    Some of ours: hardwood floors throughout, central vacuuming system, hot water tap on the sink (SOOO much more convenient than waiting for the sink water to warm up), room for an office/studio, fireplace. Not "must have" but exposed brick would be nice (which we are hoping to soon reveal on one wall of our bedroom and the sunroom!)

     
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    2PeasinaPod       Philadelphia

    When we were looking, our only requirements were:

    • 3-4 bedrooms
    • At least 2 baths
    • Open concept
    • finishable basement (for my husband)
    • fireplace (for me)
    • 1/3 - 3/4 of an acre of land

    Other than that, we were open to pretty much anything.

    @hisgoosiegirl:  Love HGTV :o) 

     
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    MrsPinkPeony    June 4, 2011   Charleston, SC

    I don't have a big list IMO. We want 3 bed, 2 bath with a basement and 2 car garage, would love a fire place but not necessary. Everything else is extra :)

     
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    Moja Milosc    September 24, 2011  

    We're looking and our list of must haves is

    - good roof/foundation/septic

    - land (1+ acres)

    - 3+ bedrooms

    - good sized kitchen

    - garage

    - hubby would say a big corner tub haha

     
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    mandb122    March 6, 2011   Temporarily in Minnesota, From South Carolina, Wedding in Charleston

    I will say first that with the situation we are in right now, we have a very small budget.  We plan to stay in the house we're looking to buy for somewhere from 4-7 years and then move into more of a very long term home.  This is also due to us being in the area for about that amount of time and possibly moving back closer to family when our time here is up.

     We actually have an offer in right now but our must haves were:

    • Enough space with at least 3 bedrooms and at least 1.5 baths
    • Completely livable but not necessarily upgraded
    • Space for storage
    • Fenced in yard with enough space for our dog and our baby coming in July 
    • A two car garage
    • Quiet surrounding area
    • My husband wanted some kind of project that he could complete in the house
     
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    pinkshoes    July 2011   MA

    Have bought an older home, which isnt even that old for New England standards at 1990... if this is a forever home for you, or at least a while and you care about maintenance.... put in access panels anywhere you can.  If you put in a jetted tub, dont tile it up, finish it off with wood panel doors, if not, hide an access panel in the closet.  Behind your tub, behind your sink, access panel. And while we're at at.. since you're building, make sure you get a layout of your plumbing.   It could save you from tearing down walls and looking for where the problem *might* be years down the road if you ever start to have leaks and drips.

     
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    eloping    May 23, 2010  

    we have an heritage older house but what i dream about is.... a big ass kitchen with a kitchen island and lots cupboards to hide stuff as i like clean benchspace and a pot rack thingy hanging from the ceiling

    covered rear entertainment area that the house opens onto with big glass doors

    big deep bathtub to comfortably fit a 6ft person or 2 ;-)

    double garage with automatic door lifter

     
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    JoJo Bananas    August 21, 2010   Santa Cruz, CA

    double sinks in master bath or his and hers bathrooms

    kitchen must have ample counterspace and cabinets accessible by short peeps

    large open living area that easily hosts small parties

    double garage

     

     
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    JoJo Bananas    August 21, 2010   Santa Cruz, CA

    double sinks in master bath or his and hers bathrooms

    kitchen must have ample counterspace and cabinets accessible by short peeps

    large open living area that easily hosts small parties

    double garage

     

     
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    roxymalone      

    in my dream  house and i would do with smaller bedrooms to have this!

    mud room off of the garage WITH a walk in dog/people bathtub/shower thingie with hot/cold running water

    walk in pantry with a deep freeze

    large laundry room with a sink/counter space/ironing space/and cubbies to put clothes in organized

    large kitchen/lots of cabinet and counter space and open to a dining (not formal) area with a bar

    lots of windows/natural lighting

    easy to clean appliances

    porches  in front and back at least one probably the back one screened

    lots of storage space that i don't have to climb to get into

    closet space

    a maid to keep it clean!

     

     
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    zippylef    October 30, 2010   Norfolk, UK

    For us:

    Location. Needs to be close to the city but still have decent schools.

    A music room/office for DH (a finished basement would work for this too)

    Main floor laundry

    walk-in closet in the master suite

    Open floor plan/good flow

    Pantry

    Good amount of storage

     

    Not necessarily a must, but preferrably it would be an old home with plenty of original detail like inlaid hardwoods, pocket doors, mouldings, etc.

     
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    kc3636    August 23, 2011  

    As i mentioned in your other post concentrate on the things you cant add later. Definately do the 2.5 bath, the larger garage, jet tub and structural for actual laundry room/mudroom. You can easily add a panty, laundry room cabinets, granite countertops(with upgraded sinks/faucets)for half the price than a builder would charge). Also i would also consider higher ceilings, larger windows in basement, pre wiring for mounted tvs or speakers, any electrical and deeper fireplace mantle.

     
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    MissGreen    July 2009  

    We built our home too but we are going to build again in about 5-10 years for our dream home. Our must haves:

     

    Hardwood in the entire home

    No jet tubs-we did this in our current home and it's a waste of space, we never use it. We want a large double head shower.

    Granite in the kitchen, we love marble in the bath like we have now.

    Walk in pantry

    Mud room

    Open plan

    We currently have a double vanity in the master bath and love it.

    Hideaway bookshelves with finger print system for gun storage

    3 car garage with pole barn

    Dh wants geothermal heating but I don't know much about it. :/

     

     
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    kc3636    August 23, 2011  

    ITEMS WE UPGRADED:
     

    Kitchen – I wanted to have my dream kitchen. 

     So definitely upgrade to a maple cabinet,Valance Lighting, Crown Moulding, Taller Uppers (if you have 9 foot ceilings), and a Fridge Enclosure/Gable.  We added more things (like glass, angled corner cabinets, wall oven, pull out trash, Dummy doors on island, enlarged our island but these things aren’t necessary.  The other items I would definitely do. However, you could always add the crown moulding/valance later if budget is a concern.

    Here are some other items we upgraded:

    -          Bathroom Cabinets        

    -          Upgraded our ceilings from Stucco to smooth. 

    -          Higher Ceilings

    -          Trim throughout the house

    -          Doors to 2 panel

    -          Oak Stair Case/upgraded railing , pickets and nosing also

    -          Tile(upgraded to larger tile) and on a brick pattern

    -          Upgraded Carpet and Underpad in our Bedrooms

    -          Bathtubs (Master to Jets and other washrooms to deeper tubs)

    -          Frameless Glass Shower in Master

    -          Electrical

    -          Pre wired speakers and  requested central vac outlets so that we could hide the wires when we mounted our tv on our wall.

    -      Potlights (Interior and Exterior)

    - French Doors and Windows

    -      Deleted all porcelain Toilet paper holders and towel bars.  We put in decorative ones.

    -      Deleted Powder Room/Ensuite Mirror so I could put in a decorative mirrors.

    -     Door Hardware(that can be done later)

    -     A few structural changes to our floor plan

    -     Made our fireplace deeper

    ITEMS WE DID LATER:

    - Granite/Faucets/Sinks in Kitchen/Quartz in Master

    -  Hardwood (we had our builder delete the carpet areas)and we installed once we took possession

    - Backsplash

    - Carpet Runners for Stairs

    - Crown Moulding

    - Laundry Room Cabinetry

    - Paint

     
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    catnip    August 2011  

    We did this when we were looking for a home and it made the painful house buying process so much easier! We knew our house was "the one" as soon as we stepped inside and could check everything off of our list.  Big things for us were:

    a garage

    a big kitchen

    a backyard big enough to play catch in

    more than one bathroom

    plus a bunch of minor stuff, like a fireplace (that we have, and never, ever use!)

     

    **ETA: just noticed you said you were building a house, not buying - but I think it all still applies! :) good luck!

     
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    HelpfulMarriedGirl    July 26, 2008  

    For us the absolute minimum was:

    Good location (safe neighborhood, good schools, nice property)

    4 bed / 2.5 bath

    2 car garage

    Formal dining room

    Dry basement

     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

     5 acres with water on the property (lake, pond, river, stream) 3 Bedroom 2 1/2 baths, Mud room, 2 car garage with enough room in the back to work on stuff, fireplaces, large main floor master, walk in closets, coat closet, office space, seperate dining room, laundry room with lots of counters

    Kitchen

    • Butlers pantry
    • lots of windows
    • walk in food pantry
    • double wall ovens
    • island with seating
    • very few, if any, upper cabinets (I am short and can't reach them)
    • 6 burner gas stove with pan filler
    • must be open to great room
    • built in coffee station
    • concrete counter tops 
     
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    lovekiss    October 9, 2011   Maryland

    There was a thread like this that you may find useful: http://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/forever-home-must-haves

     
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    Heatherloveskenny    June 4, 2011  

    Before buying our first house my must have's were:
    3 bedrooms, large yard, garage (detached or attached), around 1500 sqft, updated kitchen and bathrooms, stainless steel appliances...we found a house that met all of this but it was built in 1960, then renovated this past year but it lacks curb appeal and functional space.

    After being home owners, we have realized we need over 2000 sqft, no basement, curb appeal, an attached garage, no older than 5 years, less yard, no tile (cold feet!), 4 bedrooms and the pretty aspects like hardwood isn't so important. We'll be looking for our forever home, probably within two years.

     
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    nickels    September 3, 2012  

    My musts were:

    - Land & Location. Wanted a min of 2 acres and lots of privacy.

    - Garage

    - Minimum 2 bathrooms

    - Minimum 3 bedrooms

    - Seperate Dining room

    - Central AC

    - Kitchen Island

     

     
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    krsmall    July 16, 2011   Ashburn, VA

    Funny enough, DH and I talked about this the other day since we are starting to look at houses.  Here are our must haves:

    - At least 4 bedrooms

    - At least 4 bathrooms

    - Study/Office (preferably main level)

    - Playroom

    - Large Family room

    - Large master bedroom w/ huge en suite bathroom and 2 walk in closets

    - Separate laundry area

    - Basement which we will turn into man cave and movie room

    - At least 2 car garage

    - Large fenced in backyard

     
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    nickels    September 3, 2012  

    Things I wanted but scarificed were:

    Stainless steel appliances, mud room, inground pool, granite counter tops.

     
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    I love looking at homes and even though I am a few years away from being able to have my own I have already put thought into this. On top of being move in ready...

    • Three bedrooms but I could possibly settle for two
    • Two bathrooms min. - I will not compromise this
    • Walk in closet in master
    • Kitchen cabinets must be oak or white, no dark colors
    • No dark wood anywhere in the house
    • Lots of storage
    • Finished basement so I can make it my sports room
    • Must have curb appeal
    • Wide driveway, so if you have two cars no one is blocked in ever
    • Can't be on a main/busy road or on an intersection
    • Driveway can not be a hill
     
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    tksjewelry    June 25, 2011   Omaha

    @newenglandgirl:  The driveway thing gets me too.  I am shocked in NE that they even make driveways that slant like this: /  .  I always look at those and wonder how those people don't slide into their garage doors in the winter or if they have to pay for extra home owners insurance to keep replacing them.

     
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    SpartyGirl    May 2013   Michigan

    I cannot wait til FI and I are married and go house shopping!! I love my condo but now that there's two of us, the parking situation sucks. I only have a one car garage and all the neighbors think any inch of space is theirs to park in. I REALLY wanted a house but since I bought it way before I met my FI I didn't want to do any of the maintenence myself. I want a basement and a yard/deck so badly!! That's the only thing missing from my condo and if I had them we for sure would not be leaving! I think i'm pretty easy to please:

    • 3 bedrooms
    • 1700+ sqft
    • At least 2.5 baths
    • walk in closet in Master - preferably LARGE or two of them!
    • Masterbath. I would LOVE a tub but if not just a stand up shower will do
    • Eat in kitchen with counterspace and more cabinets than I have now
    • Basement
    • Yard
    • Two car attached garage

    Anything else can be fixed and prettied up!

     
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    mypinkshoes    April 28, 2012   mexico/ontario

    i am in the process of building another house but it is very different from the last one that i built.  (sw ontario vs yucatan, mx)  i've heard that it takes a few houses to get the perfect one.  you have to live in it a while before you realize the changes you would make. 

    the list of needs is similar to my last one: 

    • 3+ bedrooms,
    • 3+ bath,
    • oversized garage,
    • laundry room,
    • large kitchen with island and pantry, etc 

    but now with a few additional ammenities: 

    • pool,
    • pool house,
    • outside kitchen/bar/living room,
    • separate guest suite above garage 
    • large storage room (no basements here)

    this one will be poured concrete so it will look very different from the traditional brick house that i am used to.  still working with the architect on this.  hopefully this will be the dream home that i have been waiting for all of my life.

     

     
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    lovekiss    October 9, 2011   Maryland

    We are looking at existing homes so our list is a bit different. Our "must haves" focus on things we absolutely cannot change about a house and things that would cost a lot (money, time, and inconvenience) to change (e.g. having to put an addition onto a house).

    Construction: Solid, good roof, no water penetration issues, no mold issues, good quality windows, ample insulation, safe electrical system

    Location: Districted to one of a list of specific schools the we deem appropriate, safe/quiet neighborhood, within a 45 minute drive of my office

    Lot size: At least 3/4 acre with a good spot for my hammock

    Square footage: At least 2500 (above ground)

    Bedrooms:3 (if is has a seperate office/study), otherwise 4

    Bathrooms: 2 (if basement is unfinished), otherwise 2.5, must have an attached master bath

    Kitchen: Large size (or extra space in an adjoining room that could be merged to make it a large size)

    Dining room: Able to seat 8, though I'd really prefer 12

    Living room AND family room

    Laundry: Proper laundry room or space within the home to make one on the main floor or upper level

    Storage: Ample closet space in all bedrooms with additional large item storage space somewhere (could be garage rafters, seperate storage shed, utility room, etc.)

    Light: Lots of natural light. Every room should have at least 1 window.

    X factor: Something about the house that makes me say "Wow". It could be tall ceilings, great trim work (crown moldings, beadboard, built-ins, etc.), the view, or some other detail in the house. But it must have a wow factor.

     
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    KT808    October 18, 2012  

    Sturdy construction

    A roof that does not leak

    Plumbing that works

    Safe electrical work

    A kitchen with good appliances

    A good heating system

    LAND

     
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    amnystik    April 9, 2011   Texas

    Looks like most pp covered the things I'd need but I didn't see this one so:

    a CORNER fireplace in the livingroom. 

    I can't stand losing a whole wall b/c of the fireplace b/c it dramatically limits where the TV/entertainment system can go and just how you arrange the room in general... Learned this one when my parents built their house when I was a teen. =/

     
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    pinkshoes    July 2011   MA

    @amnystik:  I totally noticed that in a TON of TX houses!  They seem to like to put the fireplace in the center, and then have the built in for tv in the corner, and it totally bugged me!  That was the first thing I looked at when I was looking at some homes, is there a good place to put the TV!  How was it possible that with ALLLL that space in those big TX homes, when you cant even find a good spot for a tv!  AHHH!!  But I saw a ton with corner fireplace too and loved those!

     
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    chrispygal    September 4, 2011   MA & ME

    For us, we absolutely 100% need the following in any home we're going to live in:

    -open floor plan with kitchen/living area

    -gas heat/cooking (no oil!)

    -central air

    -2 car garage

    -master bath with dual vanity

    -walk in closet

    If I were to list our wishes for our dream home, I'd run out of room.  Tray ceilings and built in wall units are high up there on the list though.  It's so nice to dream!  lol

     
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    lovekiss    October 9, 2011   Maryland

    I thought of one more for our must have list: Good flow for entertaining. We have people over frequently, and the house needs to work for entertaining groups up to about 35 people. We had 20 people in our current home for NYE and boy did it feel cramped!

     
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    Cash000    December 2, 2011   Canada

    If we were to build I have a few must haves:

    Must NOT have a formal dining area. And by this I mean having two seperate dining tables in t the house. I don't mind it in other peoples homes, but I would just be bothered by the space not being used enough.

    Must have an ensuite

    Must have 3 bedrooms

    Must have at least 2 bathrooms

    Must have lots of windows

    I would love a wrap around porch

    Must have a great kitchen, preferably country cottage styled

    Must have hardwood or quality laminate thorughout the main floor of the house

    Nice countertops, does not have to be granite, but hopefully quartz, I would even settle for a nice looking Corian. I like seamless.

    Must have some character.

     

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