What are your must haves when dating?

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
1067 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014


Good hygeine

Well spoken/intelligent

NOT racist (hard to find after moving to the midwest)

Post # 4
682 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

1. Will eat Chipotle with me whenever I ask.

2. Adventurous when it comes to food and travel (for when I wish to do something other than drive to Chipotle).

3. Must make me feel pretty even when I stuff my face full of Chipotle.

4. Be respectful to me and my family.


Post # 5
2831 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

  • kind
  • honest
  • healthy

Post # 6
5905 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018


When I was dating, he had to:

1. Have potential

2. Character

3. Integrity

4. Self Respect

Everything else is just window dressing, because a guy can loose a job in a heartbeat, be in a car accident and smash his face to pieces or have dropped out of high school to help support his family and still be vey intelligent.

Post # 7
700 posts
Busy bee


FT Career


Let me have time with my friends (male and female)

don’t over text me

loves me, of course

have similar interests

not want kids

be able to rationally discuss kids, finances, religion, conflict resolution


Just to name a few. I know, high maintainence but thats me, lol

Post # 8
115 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2015



-Good sense of humour

-Selfless/thinks of others 

i was dating a guy who had NONE of these qualities when I met my SO, that’s probably why I was so swept off my feet 😉

Post # 9
650 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014


I pretty much have the same list as you but I just think “job” will suffice – very good job isn’t important to me.

Post # 11
4072 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

  • Intelligent, knowledgable
  • Respectful
  • Makes me laugh
  • Enjoys travel
  • Non-religious
  • Considerate

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