My wedding is on 01.05.2013… had a dream that other night that it was tomorrow. FREAKED OUT, but we went through with it anyway even though nothing major was done! And the dream was still pleasant, so I know the real day will be even more so 🙂
Finished: purchased dress, booked ceremony & reception venues, chosen colors (red and dark teal!), chosen caterer (menu isn’t finalized though), assigned wedding party (except ushers), booked officiant, completed pre-martial counseling, sent STDs, purchased wedding bands
Started: talking to photographers (deciding between two), ideas for reception decor (maybe 60% conceived), designing invitations (almost ready to print), talking to musicians, guest list (is it ever really finalized? ugh), hair and makeup ideas
Need to do: find bridesmaid dresses (!!!! – we had to fire the seamstress last week, so starting over on that one!), design and order cake, figure out and order what the men are wearing, think about wedding party gifts, dress alterations, design programs, marraige lisence, transportation, honeymoon plans.
Most of the big things I have been talking to people, but haven’t actually asked anyone to commit. So that will hopefully be in writing soon! Bridesmaid dresses are my real concern right now – can’t order them from bridal salons because they say they’ll take approx 12 weeks to come in, and my wedding is in 13 weeks! After that, printing and addressing the invitations.