- 8 years ago
I’m having trouble deciding how to incorporate my FI’s 2 sisters in our ceremony. They are 23 and 19 and we have great relationships with both of them I’m having 6 BMs already (my sisters, cousin, and a couple of life-long friends), and didn’t even want that big of a bridal party to start off with. They don’t play any instruments or sing, and they would not be comfortable doing a reading. Also, my FI doesn’t want candle lighters, as he wants the all the candles lit before the guests arrive. We definitely want to have them escorted down the aisle, during the family processional, but I still feel like I want them to do something else important, as all of our other siblings are either BMs, GMs or ushers. I don’t want to give them a token job, like guest book attendant or anything. What else is left?! Does anyone have any suggestions?