(Closed) what can I do for my friend?

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Maybe just send over some flowers and a card and maybe some home made cookies…something with a personal touch is always nice. Sorry to hear about this 🙁

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

good call alishadhs4! perfect idea flowers and cookies and just letting her know ur there…that means the world to someone

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee

I agree flowers or cookies would be nice. I would also include a nice note saying you are so sorry for her loss and an offer to be a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I think flowers, cards or food right now is always a nice thing to do to support someone.  Writing in the card that you are there for her to talk so that if she needs you, she can lean on you.

 

My biggest advice would be to follow up with her in the coming weeks.  In my experience with losing people close to me, everyone is all over you wanting to help in the immediate aftermath, when you’re still numb with shock.  Once some time goes by and you are really grieving, most people have moved on and aren’t there when you actually are ready to talk.

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