- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2011
You are all too awesome, and I am reaching out to you in hopes of how to be a better friend!
One of my best friends may not get to go through with her first IVF cycle as she is bleeding. She is very down, and I want nothing more to just hug her!
She has one DS who is the best kid in the world, but with losses following him, unsuccessful IUI and now onto IVF, she has a few other things that I know decrease her fertility that she is beyond aware of and it kills me. I just struggle to keep her positive, and I want nothing more for her family to get bigger.
I definitely try to listen and give less back when I don’t know what to say (a lot of our communication is email or text, which is fine and normal for us!). I am pregnant too and she has been so wonderful to me to be able to talk to (I did tell her before anyone else as she is incredible to have for talk and advice and questions!) and try to be very conscious of not talking about me too much as I know she is excited, but I don’t want it to hurt her.
Is there anything I can do? Say? Not say?
Thanks in advance, I just want to be there for her.