(Closed) What Can I Do??

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Hi.  Yours is a complicated post and I can’t quite keep all the dates and facts straight in my head, but two things really, really stand out to me, maybe three.  I don’t want to lecture here but you’re very young, aren’t you, I mean, in number and in experience (maybe)? That’s the first thing.  The second thing is, and probably related, you guys don’t seem to get along very well or have too-stable a thing going.  And the third thing — definitely related to all — is the baby or child.  NONE of this can be very good for him or her, and, sorry to have to say this (a la Judge Judy), but this human life is very much your priority, or at least, should be.  You knew what was involved in getting pregnant the first time (at 17) and you let it happen again.  That’s a huge responsibility that you chose to take on.  So… be responsible.  To your child.  Put this shaky relationship on hold.  Get your mood swings more under control (kudos on the therapy) and take care of your little darling who needs you so very, very much and with as good a smile on your face, and as much humor and laughter and ideas for living, that you can muster! And stay on the board — there’s amazing advice out there!

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