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1. 400 invited, 300 attended
2. Western PA
3. ~$20,000. I don't have the exact receipts for everything, but when in doubt I rounded up. This included food and 5 hours open bar, DJ, photog, apparel, gifts for bridal party, hair/make up, etc. Did not include rings, honeymoon, rehearsal dinner.
1. 50 people
2. Kelowna, BC, Canada
3. ~$10,000 (not including e-ring or honeymoon)
MOB bought dress (~$700) and kicking in $3000 otherwise. Groom's parents hosting rehearsal dinner. We're covering the rest. Traditional Catholic ceremony at my church. Afternoon reception at a lovely old heritage house that has been converted to a restaurant, and that offers awesome wedding packages that pretty much include everything (food, flowers, cake, decorations, wait staff) and a reasonable price on wine service. Perfect for the slacker bride. :-)
1. ~80
2. NYC
3. ~$14,000 max
Paying for it all by my lonesome. FH is up to his eyeballs in school loans. Calling in every favor owed to me and using every contact in my address book! :)
Does not include rehersal dinner (MOG paying) and mini-moon (MOB paying).
Does include rings (oh how I love family heirlooms that find their way to ME!).
1) 100
2) Baltimore, MD
3) Just under $6,000 (Did not include rings, rehearsal or honeymoon)
1) 240 (invited)
2) Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
3) $45,000 (this is our budget for 200 guests...so it will be a little bit more if everyone RSVPs yes!)
This is a really neat post!
we are paying for our entire wedding and buying a house and putting down 20% all this year.
so our budget is limited...
1. 100 invited (we will have a B list invites so we will prob have 100 people regardless)
2. evansville indiana
3. $3,500-e-ring and wedding bands, 2,500-wedding, 2,000-honeymoon
$8000 total for EVERYTHING wedding related but so far I am way UNDER budget.
looks like it will end up being more like $6500!!
Congrats Ladies!
Ceremony 325, Reception 150
Albany, Western Australia
Budget $12,000 Aussie dollars or $11,200 American
So far nearly a grand under budget. Only thing we are really sacrificing is a professional photographer as we are getting a friend to do it who has done weddings in the past.
However my friend who is a professional videographer and usually charges a couple of grand and doing our video as a wedding present! YAY
We are paying for the wedding ourselves with no parental help.
Our main wedding:
Expecting 400+ guests.
Abu Dhabi, United Arab Emirates.
Our budget is $50k. For the party only - not including attire, jewelry or honeymoon.
California reception:
Expecting 80 guests.
A hotel, Monterey, CA.
The budget is under $20k. Monterey is expensive and we're doing a full reception. Wearing the dress again, hair, makeup, centerpieces, photographer, DJ, dinner.
Tennessee reception:
Expecting 60 guests.
Someone's large backyard, Memphis, TN.
Budget under $7k. Super casual. Having it catered by a friend, hiring a photographer, minor lighting and decor, table/chair rental, and a sound system.
1) Inviting probably 250 (ish) people, would love less
2) Philly
3) Excluding rings and honeymoon- probably like 80k
STATS!!! STATS!!! STATS!!!
I don't think Miss Sauce is around anymore so I'm keeping a running total now.
Average costs for wedding = $26,627 (nat. avg = 19,600)
Average # of guests = 187
Average costs per person = $187
Mode of guests = 150
Mode of costs = $10,000
Median of costs = $20,000
Median of # of guests = 130
According to the responses in this thread, most people are getting married in CA & NY, respectively, with their budgets coming in at $34,765 & $44,022, respectively.
I also have state averages so let me know if you'd like to know!!!
1) 60 guests
2) Orange County , CA
3) 32K (including rings, excluding honeymoon)
I thought having a small guest list would make it a lot cheaper but nope, every place we liked had a minimum we had to meet. This is the lowest I could get it down to for a MONDAY holiday wedding :(
FI who's just starting out in his career is chipping in a few thousand, and I'm paying the rest from my savings. My dad says he can help out if I need it but we never discussed a figure, so it's upto his generosity. Since he paid solely for my wedding and honeymoon in my previous marriage, I feel like he's done more than his part. Not his fault I keep marrying broke guys :)
125 people
Long Island, NY
Budget (less rings and honeymoon) = $20,000
45 people
Destination, FL
Total including hotel rooms, gratuity and plane tickets: $30,000
excludes honeymoon and rings. Want to add that it's another $22,000
130 guests
Suburbs of Philadelphia. (West Chester, PA)
Cost for everything, not including honeymoon= $14K
Gifts received in cash or check = $8K
Me and DH paid for 90% of the wedding ourselves so we had to keep low.
14K paid for a formal ceremony in a church and a formal sit down reception. Open bar but without paying for open bar prices because we were able to buy our alcohol and caterers had bartenders to serve it.
About to book our delayed honeymoon... for 7 days in an adult only all inclusive in cancun is going to cost us 2700 and that includes airfare.
150 guests
southern california
$55000 sans the rings/honeymoon
80 guests
vineyard in the finger lakes region of Ny
Saturday full meal and wine/beer open bar
$15000 with rings, honeymoon, rehersal dinner, wedding party attire and housing for parents for 1 week
$10000 sans rings, honeymoon, rehersal dinner and housing for parents for 1 week
1) Number of guests?
A dozen at the ceremony. About 60 at the reception.
2) What is your location?
Ceremony in Winchester, MA. Reception in Washington, DC.
3) What was the final cost of your wedding?
Between $10,000 and $11,000.
1) Invited 170; Around 95 attended
2) Deep Creek Lake, Maryland
3) $30,000
1. 125 people attending
2. South of Boston
3. 10-12K, this includes everything except the engagement ring. Our parents each contributed 5K so we tried to keep everything right around 10K but we may come in just a tad over.
1) Expecting ~45
2) Destin, FL
3) ~13,500 (Not including rings, honeymoon or rehersal dinner)
1. 115ish
2. Hope, NJ (an hour outside of NYC)
3. $30,000 (not including honeymoon)
@ peihan17 Thanks for the stats - I'm impressed!
I saw the other thread from user Wedding Loans, then saw this 3 year old thread had been updated and knew that OUR FRIEND, WEDDING LOANS, must have posted. Get lost, srsly.
@singasong: Whuh? I thought it was an interesting thread and I was about to post.
FWIW:
1) 140 day/250 evening
2) Perthshire, Scotland, UK
3) £31,000 (c.$48k USD) including honeymoon but not engagement rings.
@SpecialSundae: It is an interesting thread. The mods have deleted the post now anyway so you can't see it (it was a spammer)!
1) Hamilton, Ontario
2) 60 people
3) $10k (Not including rings and honeymoon)
1) Number of guests?
80
2) What is your location?
Pear Valley Vineyards in Paso Robles, CA
3) What was the final cost of your wedding?
$17,000 (about)
Wow I'm amazed by all the people paying over 30,000...
1. 100 guests
2. Lodi, CA near sacramento
3.15,000 including honeymoon, rings, everything!
1) 55 (however everything was planned for 90. we had to cancel the first date and move it back two weeks because of extreme flooding in our area)
2) What is your location? Danville, PA (Central PA)
3) What was the final cost of your wedding? $7,058.48 that includes everything even rings, rehearsal dinner, trials and the $500 we lost on canceling the first time. I kept track of every penny that was spent for the wedding. We haven't planned anything for a honeymoon just yet.
1.) 58
2.) South Australia
3.) $30,000 excl rings and honeymoon
Rings $10,000
Honeymoon $15,000
total cost $55,000
WOW again!!! These are all very interesting to see. I hope that everyone truly enjoys or has enjoyed their day no matter how much was spent....
1. 100-ish
2. Duluth, GA (near Atlanta)
3. $10-12k (not including rings, dress/attire, or honeymoon..oh, and my invisalign treatment) For wedding/reception related only..
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