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What did/would you do with your dress post-TTD?

posted 1 year ago in Dress
  • poll: After you "trashed" your dress for pictures, what did you do with it?
    Got it dry cleaned and donated/sold it : (6 votes)
    26 %
    Got it dry cleaned and kept it/preserved it : (9 votes)
    39 %
    Threw it away : (1 votes)
    4 %
    Our TTD was hard core, and there was no dress left! : (0 votes)
    It's in my home, filthy, while I try to decide : (4 votes)
    17 %
    Other : (2 votes)
    9 %
    Altered it so it's still wearable (shortened, dyed, etc.) : (1 votes)
    4 %
    Used the fabric to make something else : (0 votes)
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    My dress was not expensive, is completely filthy (we walked from our ceremony to reception and it was about half an inch too long, plus my bustle got totally ripped out while dancing, so it's grosssssss underneath), and I don't think it's even worth the cost of dry cleaning, to be really honest.

    I've thought about donating it, but I would have to clean it first, and possibly repair the underskirt where the bustle tore out, and I'm not sure it's worth the cost to me. I can easily see spending more to get it ready to donate than I spent on the dress itself!

    So, I was thinking, "Why not trash it?" It's already semi-trashed, so I might as well have another fun photoshoot next summer when it's warm enough to get in the water, right? :)

    Anyway, it got me thinking - what do you do with the dress post-TTD?

     
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    aunt pol    May 7, 2011   Ireland

    My plan, if the dress survives the wedding day well, is to have it cleaned, then have the skirt cut down to make a christening gown for kids. That's the plan anyway!

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    Imagining what yours must look like, I would try to salvage what I could from it and then make something with the salvagable parts; maybe some throw pillows for the bed or a baby blanket/bonnet, a christening gown; something.

     
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    midnight17    August 18, 2012   Alberta, Canada

    I am really sentimental, so if my dress survives my wedding day then I will clean it and preserve it.

     
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    @noritake22: I had thought about trying to use the fabric for something, but the construction of the dress itself would make that tough, I think - it's a lot of separate pieces of fabric sewn together... hard to describe, let me see if I've got a picture I can show you :)

    What did/would you do with your dress post-TTD? :  wedding IMG 1226

    See how the skirt is strips of fabric sewn togeher (in slants)?

     
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    @midnight17: I think that's part of what I'm not sure about - I'm totally NOT a sentimental person at all! But I also feel very weird with the idea of crumpling up my wedding dress and tossing it in a dumpster somewhere...

     
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    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    @daydreamwanderer: You could still take parts of it and make some pillows out of it. Pillows don't have to be single peices of fabric. Another thought, you could cut part of it out and put it in a picture frame by itself or with some small momentos from your wedding.

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    I hope to give mine to a charity that gives wedding dresses to women in Haiti. I think it is wonderful and the founder said that the women are so very greatful because they don't have much.

     
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    EmEv    August 21, 2010  

    I haven't done anything with my dress yet.  Might donate it, or try to sell it. The thing is that I don't want to pay to have it dry cleaned.  It didn't get very dirty at all at the wedding, but I wonder who will want to buy a dress that isn't dry cleaned? 

     
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    @EmEv: My thoughts exactly! It's not worth the cost of dry cleaning, but I can't do anything with it until it's been cleaned...

     
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    ceamoste    September 3, 2011  

    @daydreamwanderer: even Oprah seems to be in shock haha.

     
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    daniellemybelle    June 19, 2010   Baltimore, MD

    @ceamoste: Yes! Oprah is all, "OMG look at this dress!"

    I would cut a clean, relatively hidden strip that could be used to wrap your daughter's bouquet with at her wedding, if she so chooses. And then take it to Goodwill - I think they will try to clean stuff that they feel like might be worth salvaging, so it gives it more hope of a future life than tossing it out!

     
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    redbullfanatic    July 7, 2010   Long Beach, CA

    I did a TTD and it's fine, could probably be dry cleaned or at least pressed.  I don't think it's even worth selling because it's an old Paloma Blanca from a year ago and I don't see a point in selling it for a few hundred bucks.  So it will probably hang in my closet year after year.  Maybe I should preserve it...hmmm

     

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