Post # 1
I guess I am one of those women who enjoy regular ‘ol sex no matter how many times it’s done. My husband is sexy, and I never get tired of doing the deed without any “help.” HOWEVER! I have found that it can be fun to bring other things into the bedroom.
While my husband and I are not ones to bring other people into our bedrooms, we’re more than happy to try different things. I have a few toys that he will sometimes go grab. I’ve brought porn into the bedroom a few times even though we end up turning it off cause it’s so fake, but gets up revved. He isn’t a big fan of me dressing up (he thinks it’s cheesy, LOL!) He asked if I was against using condoms with ribbing or pleasure for her type condoms for “something different.” I’m on the pill and it’s been YEARS since we used condoms, so I was a little surprised to hear he wanted to try condoms again. I recalled that we still had some condoms left over from when I visited a Planned Parenthood before I was employed . . .but they aren’t anything special. Just regular ‘ol condoms. Anyways. . .we tried them out and it wasn’t as fun as without a condom. Not to mention, I couldn’t really feel his grooves, so to speak. 😛 I’m wondering if I should try some other condoms that are ribbed or have tinging sensations on them. We aren’t using them to prevent pregnancy, we’re just wanting to add them for fun. Any suggestions on that?
Also, any other special toys you personally love? I have my eye on Lelo’s Ora toy. It’s expensive, but hubby gave me the okay to purchase it. Perhaps next pay day. IT LOOKS SO FUN!!! I’d really like some suggestions for some fun things for HIM, as well!
Don’t be shy!!! 🙂
Post # 2
LittlePumpkin: I love plain old sex with my husband but he tries really hard to make it “interesting”. We recently started using a bullet vibrator which I don’t really love but he does. He likes that when he uses it, he can feel the vibration too. I guess it makes him really “excited” so to speak.
We also do some really really light bondage. And by that I mean we have a pair of fuzzy pink handcuffs that he barely tightens because I have an anxiety disorder lol. But it’s kind of fun… And funny too.
I’m thinking of purchasing some flavored gel for oral sex. It makes him happy but I hate the taste/texture of pre-ejaculate and semen so I’m hoping it will mask it a bit for me.
On a side note: I feel super dirty talking about all this! Makes me feel like we’re way kinkier than we are lol.
Post # 3
Handcuffs are always fun.. My bf got something that reminded me of pop rocks for oral sex! It feels interesting lol! We always have one of those vibrating c*** rings.. Some different flavours of lube. I recommend going to a sex shop together and picking things out!
Post # 4
We use handcuffs, both fuzzy and not. We also have a vibrating cock ring. The newer one we have is better(the old one was cheap and would crap out after like 5 minutes) has more of a bullet side to it so it adds more clitoral stimulation. SO much better. I dont need lube at all normally, and most of it irritates me(I have very sensitive skin-especially the warming stuff) but my SO got one of those hers/mine kits, idr the brand…it wasnt the KY one though. We alternate which one to use, and the hers one is tingly. OMG. Amazing
Post # 5
ren89: LOL you are too cute! I have tried the flavored oral sex gel and it is DELICIOUS! It should totally help with the pre-cum taste. However, it won’t mask his actual ejaculate. There’s too much of that to hide it. You can always have him finish elsewhere if it is just NOT do-able for you!! We have handcuffs but we don’t use ’em often. I know DH loves them, but I think he forgets about them. 😛
luot: Ahh! Vibrating cock rings! I’ve been looking for a good one for him. I actually just bough a pack of Pop Rocks for THAT reason rofl! Too funny you mentioned it here too. 😀 Thanks for the advice.<3
Liss13: Which brand is the newer version of the cock ring you have? I was curious about getting DH one. I ALMOST picked up the KY His/Hers lube yesterday but it was $20. I wanted to do some research first to see how people liked it. I ended up with a Pleasure Pack from Trojan that has 3 condoms: 1 sensations (for her), 1 twisted and 1 ultra ribbed. We’re not condom people, but we thought it would be fun. UGH you’re making me want to go back and get the his/hers kit. Eek!!!
Post # 6
LittlePumpkin: I have no idea…ill have to check my Amazon.com cart to see. Lol, damn that ring works!
Ill have to look up the lube brands too…I need to stop checking weddingbee when im not home. Lol
Post # 7
- Wedding: May 2015 - The Runnymede Hotel
LittlePumpkin: Argh, don’t use pop rocks on your downstairs! Your vagina is extremely sensitive to sugar, putting sugar down there is a surefire way to get an infection! Not sexy!
Post # 8
A wet vagina…it’s better than using his own hand. Lol
Post # 9
- Wedding: February 2013 - Mansion House at the MD Zoo
LittlePumpkin: Check out the fantasty box. Once a month they send you a box with a scenario/some instructions, toys, lube, sometimes an outfit. They are all very varied and different. We get the medium price tier and it’s a bunch of really good quality stuff. ALso it’s like a free vibrator a month, all slightly different, definitely ones we’ve used over and over. It’s fantastic and really really fun.
Post # 10
LittlePumpkin: Omgggg Lelo toys are AWESOME! I don’t have Ora but I do have Gigi and I LOVE her. I justify the expense because Lelo toys are really quality and made of safe materials. I’ve had mine for two years and she still runs great. And she gets quite a bit of use if you know what I mean 😉 Love that they’re rechargeable instead of eating up batteries too. I do recommend getting yours on amazon though if you can find one fufilled by amazon with good reviews. I went that route and saved lots of money and so did my friend. No problems whatsoever. I looked up Ora and she’s 60 dollars cheaper! http://www.amazon.com/Premium-Sensual-Silicone-Massager-Waterproof/dp/B00HZVIFSQ
I also second soontobeMrsBoo‘s advice! That fantasy box sounds awesome! I’m wanting to sign up now!
Post # 11
He bought me one of these and its the most amazing machine on the planet. On. The. Planet. LOL
Post # 12
aka_nessa : What exactly do you do with it? What does it do? Lol
Post # 13
You sit down on the dildo, straddling the machine and the whole thing vibrates. There are different speeds & settings. You can also buy different sizes and shapes of the dildos haha
He likes to control it, he’s likes when I’m blindfolded and tied up on it and he also enjoys a blowjob while I’m on it haha
Post # 14
Jeneexoxo: Ahh! Thank you. So glad to hear good reviews about Lelo. I’ve never owned one previously so I was skeptical. 😀
Thank you so much everyone for being awesome and not being shy hehehe. >: D SO MANY IDEAS!!! We tried a few condoms from the Pleasure Pack by Trojan. I wasn’t a fan of the ‘Twisted’ condom, but ‘Her Pleasure’ is AMAZINGGGG. For thoe of you who use condoms, I highly recommend Trojan’s ‘Her Pleasure’ condom. Also: KY’s “Yours and Mine” lube. Oh my. What an experience!
Post # 15
Oh man, I am totally that person with the crate of sex toys under her bed (not kidding, it’s an actual plastic crate that I bought from Walmart). I have a host of vibrators (bullet, g-spot, and “standard”, and I’m waiting to buy a rabbit), flavored lubes (I find them a little overrated, but I don’t mind the normal tastes lol), blindfolds, copy of the Karma Sutra, porn dvds, exciting lingere, a vibrating cock ring that I LOVE, and some candles with low melting points.
I have some heavier/weirder stuff too; a set of floggers, a crop, police-grade hand/ankle cuffs, leather wrist/ankle cuffs, bondage tape, clothespins, nipple clamps, ball gag, butt plug, collar and leash, etc.
My recommendations would be a g-spot vibrator (possibly my favorite toy), some good lingere (you man may not like the schoolgirl outfit, but I’ve yet to met a man who doesn’t like a pair of thigh high fishnets and a lacy garter belt), and if you’re feeling especially adventerous some handcuffs. I also suggest going to a sex shop together. My FI and I just did that a few weeks ago and it was so much fun.
My only warning is to STAY AWAY from lube/condoms with the word “warming” on them. I had to throw out a whole box of Trojans ‘Fire and Icc’ because they were so freaking painful D: