What Do YOU Bring to the Bedroom? ;)

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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667 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June, 2014

LittlePumpkin:  I love plain old sex with my husband but he tries really hard to make it “interesting”. We recently started using a bullet vibrator which I don’t really love but he does. He likes that when he uses it, he can feel the vibration too. I guess it makes him really “excited” so to speak.

We also do some really really light bondage. And by that I mean we have a pair of fuzzy pink handcuffs that he barely tightens because I have an anxiety disorder lol. But it’s kind of fun… And funny too. 

I’m thinking of purchasing some flavored gel for oral sex. It makes him happy but I hate the taste/texture of pre-ejaculate and semen so I’m hoping it will mask it a bit for me. 

On a side note: I feel super dirty talking about all this! Makes me feel like we’re way kinkier than we are lol. 

Post # 3
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165 posts
Blushing bee

Handcuffs are always fun.. My bf got something that reminded me of pop rocks for oral sex! It feels interesting lol! We always have one of those vibrating c*** rings.. Some different flavours of lube. I recommend going to a sex shop together and picking things out! 

Post # 4
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1801 posts
Buzzing bee

We use handcuffs, both fuzzy and not. We also have a vibrating cock ring. The newer one we have is better(the old one was cheap and would crap out after like 5 minutes) has more of a bullet side to it so it adds more clitoral stimulation. SO much better. I dont need lube at all normally, and most of it irritates me(I have very sensitive skin-especially the warming stuff) but my SO got one of those hers/mine kits, idr the brand…it wasnt the KY one though. We alternate which one to use, and the hers one is tingly. OMG. Amazing

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee

LittlePumpkin:  I have no idea…ill have to check my Amazon.com cart to see. Lol, damn that ring works!

Ill have to look up the lube brands too…I need to stop checking weddingbee when im not home. Lol

Post # 7
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120 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015 - The Runnymede Hotel

LittlePumpkin:  Argh, don’t use pop rocks on your downstairs! Your vagina is extremely sensitive to sugar, putting sugar down there is a surefire way to get an infection! Not sexy!

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

A wet vagina…it’s better than using his own hand. Lol

Post # 9
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812 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013 - Mansion House at the MD Zoo

LittlePumpkin:  Check out the fantasty box. Once a month they send you a box with a scenario/some instructions, toys, lube, sometimes an outfit. They are all very varied and different. We get the medium price tier and it’s a bunch of really good quality stuff. ALso it’s like a free vibrator a month, all slightly different, definitely ones we’ve used over and over. It’s fantastic and really really fun.

Post # 10
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247 posts
Helper bee

LittlePumpkin:  Omgggg Lelo toys are AWESOME! I don’t have Ora but I do have Gigi and I LOVE her. I justify the expense because Lelo toys are really quality and made of safe materials. I’ve had mine for two years and she still runs great. And she gets quite a bit of use if you know what I mean 😉 Love that they’re rechargeable instead of eating up batteries too. I do recommend getting yours on amazon though if you can find one fufilled by amazon with good reviews. I went that route and saved lots of money and so did my friend. No problems whatsoever. I looked up Ora and she’s 60 dollars cheaper! http://www.amazon.com/Premium-Sensual-Silicone-Massager-Waterproof/dp/B00HZVIFSQ

I also second soontobeMrsBoo‘s advice! That fantasy box sounds awesome! I’m wanting to sign up now!

Post # 11
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478 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

He bought me one of these and its the most amazing machine on the planet. On. The. Planet. LOL

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Soladylike:  

You sit down on the dildo, straddling the machine and the whole thing vibrates. There are different speeds & settings. You can also buy different sizes and shapes of the dildos haha 

He likes to control it, he’s likes when I’m blindfolded and tied up on it and he also enjoys a blowjob while I’m on it haha

Post # 15
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851 posts
Busy bee

Oh man, I am totally that person with the crate of sex toys under her bed (not kidding, it’s an actual plastic crate that I bought from Walmart). I have a host of vibrators (bullet, g-spot, and “standard”, and I’m waiting to buy a rabbit), flavored lubes (I find them a little overrated, but I don’t mind the normal tastes lol), blindfolds, copy of the Karma Sutra, porn dvds, exciting lingere, a vibrating cock ring that I LOVE, and some candles with low melting points.

I have some heavier/weirder stuff too; a set of floggers, a crop, police-grade hand/ankle cuffs, leather wrist/ankle cuffs, bondage tape, clothespins, nipple clamps, ball gag, butt plug, collar and leash, etc.  

My recommendations would be a g-spot vibrator (possibly my favorite toy), some good lingere (you man may not like the schoolgirl outfit, but I’ve yet to met a man who doesn’t like a pair of thigh high fishnets and a lacy garter belt), and if you’re feeling especially adventerous some handcuffs. I also suggest going to a sex shop together. My FI and I just did that a few weeks ago and it was so much fun.

My only warning is to STAY AWAY from lube/condoms with the word “warming” on them. I had to throw out a whole box of Trojans ‘Fire and Icc’ because they were so freaking painful D: 

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