(Closed) What do you do….

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
18645 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Are they planning on getting married close to the same time you are or something?  Or do you both share a lot of common friends?  As long as the events are held in the same general area, I don’t see why they can’t be within a few weeks of each other.

Post # 4
435 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Who set their date first????  My friend and I got engaged around the same time and I’m getting married in 3 months and she’s getting married in 11 months…..all depends what you want. 

Post # 5
193 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Why do you need to plan your wedding around theirs?

Post # 6
4485 posts
Honey bee

Why do you have to put your wedding on hold? They aren’t marrying on the same day as you, are they? Even so, they don’t own the day. Yes you have a right to be upset but putting your planning on hold makes no sense.

Post # 7
1438 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I agree with PP why do you have to arrange it around theirs? My husband’s bestfriend got engaged a couple of months before we did. They had already set their date when we got engaged, but we knew we wanted to get married in September, and we didn’t want to wait an extra year. Our wedding was one month after theirs, and it was fine.

What I thought was a little odd (as did other people) was another couple hosted their engagement party the morning after our wedding. Didn’t bother husband and I though because we were on a plane to the DR for our honeymoon.

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