What do you do when…

posted 3 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

That’s a good idea, I might steal it!

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@runningcali: ….Mr. 99 likes to cheat on his wife…with his wife!

We’ll set a date to meet up in a bar someplace usually in a hotel, we’ll both get dressed up, I like to have a lot of fun with what a wear, and I’ll be sitting at the bar and he has to come over and pick me up, like we just met, and we don’t know each other.

It sounds silly, but its actually really fun!

 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@Nona99:  This sounds really fun! Like acting hehe

Post # 6
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Busy bee

@runningcali:  being that you state you are TTC, are you charting, taking your temperature etc.. like do you literally plan to have sex on a specific day to get pregnant? or are you just not using birth control and having sex? (NTNP) I think that planning to have sex on a certain day does get redundant.. (but if you are having difficulty then thats another can of worms)

Let things come naturally and just have fun with it, as cliche as that sounds. dont look at it as a chore, think about when you just had sex for the sake of expressing your love not for the sole purpose of reproducing…

you ever considered sex toys? (not sure if you are into that being that you said no porn) or even something as simple as not always using your bed in your bedroom, try a different location in your home or elsewhere (depends on your comfort level). 

I think the biggest thing is not putting that pressure on yourself being that you are TTC. 

best of luck OP

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@Nona99:  That is hot and actually one of my fantasies 😉

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Nona99:  SIGN ME UP!!!!! I wanna do that!!!!!!!!! But drive together LOL I hate driving!

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m commenting to follow because I’m in the same spot. We could use a bit of spice these days. 

I really like the jar idea. 

I’ve been scouring the internet for lingerie, but apparently I have pretty specific taste and so many of the options out there a) all look the same b) are cheaply made or c) are a million dollars. I still think I’m going to order a few things. 

 

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@Nona99:  haha! That was on an episode of Modern Family! Did you see that one, it was hilarious.

But a great idea nonetheless, will have to keep it in mind. Do you make up different names/occupations/personal details for yourself?

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2018

@Miss_Magoo82:  …yeah, one time he was a race car driver, and other….he was a zoo-keeper.  Sometimes its like he’s trying to get me to laugh at him and just fall apart, but its always really fun, and who doesn’t like hotel sex?  You don’t have to make the bed!

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Nona99:  SO JEALOUS! I keep trying to talk DH into doing this but he says he would feel silly trying to pretend like he doesn’t know me. I think it sounds hot!

Post # 14
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

Uhhh so this is awkward that I know this but my parents did that. I think I must have clued in to it before they thought I was old enough to “get” their innuendo. 

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Nona99:  That sounds very Phil and Claire from Modern Family, love it!

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