What do you even say to this?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
2861 posts
Sugar bee

@vanessa7:  Sorry, we would love to invite everyone but we simply don’t have the space/money. 

I find that in general, men are much more tactless about these things than women. 

Post # 4
1937 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@vanessa7:  I dont think he meant anything by it, but was just curious. I mean, if he didnt even know you were getting married next month, he’s probably not that close a friend. 

I would let it go. He asked your FI, so just have him say “yeah, we’re having a really small wedding” and leave it at that. 

Post # 5
1510 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Guys are dumb. Having FI respond that you are having a small wedding and leave it at that.

Post # 5
129 posts
Blushing bee

I wouldn’t have invited myself but at least he was friendly when doing it. I’ve heard of worse situations on this type of thing!

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