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What do you fight about

posted 2 years ago in Newlyweds
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    Dragonsus    December 19, 2009   Lexington KY

    i think my husband and I fight about the weirdest things - most frequently about how to take out the trash or who's walking the dog correctly (yes we are both perfectionists)  In addition we fight about how to cook dinner (he's southern and likes everything fried, I want things fresh)  So what weird things do you and your hubby/wifey fight about?

     
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    butterflylover    August 14, 2010   Toronto, Ontario

    LOL..i know what u mean we always get into some sort of a "fight" on the weekends over who is being more lazy...or me asking him to clean up after himself...or not wanting to go shopping with him.  I GET ALL upset (that is not like me thu only with him TOO much love i guess) and he gets stubborn give us 30mins and we r back to normal :) 

    He is VEEEERY sensitive so saying anything not nice and i have a sad husband on my hands..then there is the wedding plans (we r married and having our reception this August)  funny thing is we switch places..ex: last week i believed spending too much money on (insert the category) is not a good idea..this week i believe it is and has all the points i made last week :)

    it is such a big deal at the moment and then few minutes or an hr later it is nothing important :)

     
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    verosara    March 27, 2010   LA, California

    Time, and how we're not making the most of it, or lately not making time for us.  We're still so busy and are adjusting to new commutes and still moving and handling post-wedding things that it's been hectic.  So we're both stressed and don't have enough time for the things we want and it's def getting to us. 

     

     
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    monalisa670    August 2009   Boston

    We don't really fight, but we get annoyed at each other, and it's usually because our personalities are different in one regard and then with that regard, our spending habits differ greatly. I have more of an impulsive personality in general but also with money, and he takes an extreeeemly long time to make decisions, especially when related to money. I get really frustrated because I feel like things never get done on the house, or he's being cheap or something, and he gets frustrated because he thinks I don't appreciate the value of money, or how difficult things such as re-doing a bedroom can be. It's really frustrating, but luckily neither of us are fighters or I could see it being problematic.

     
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    chicagowife      

    I wished we fought about those things!  We fight about harder things (at least in my opinion) like how much money to spend on things and how much time to spend with eachother's families.  Although mostly we've resolved those issues -- they just flare up once in a while.

     

     

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