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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    As some of you know M and I are nearing our 18 month mark (EEEEEEEEE) on December 1. I have honestly never been in a relationship this long without breaking up. I don't think I was one of the most mature characters in the book of love.  To celebrate and surprise him I am writing the 548 things that I love the most about him (there are roughly 548 days in 18 months).  Well I am about 100 down and running out of steam, so I was hoping you ladies could provide inspiration or at least get the wheels churning again.

    So what do you love the most?  Feel free to list as many or as little... Hmmm I just thought of another...

    I love how bright his eyes are in the morning, or the space where his dark colored boxers meet the whiteness of his leg (he's pretty pale and that is so sexy because it is intimate and only I know what that looks like)...

    What's your favorite?

     
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    gingerkid4god    June 12, 2010   West Virginia

    Hm is to cheesy to say everything. I love his deap blue eyes. I love love love to put my fingers through his thick short blackish brown hair its so sexy and soothing. I love how he cuddles with me and we fall asleep. I love how when I need him he is there. Also how he can make any crying baby fall asleep instantly.

     
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    bkgrahamwedding    March 20, 2010   Pensacola, FL

    Wow..548? That's going to be a pretty long list!

    Maybe you could get several out of variations on a theme i.e. "I love how you _____" You could say all kinds of things like "pay the rent so I don't have to remember it," "brush your teeth in the morning," "put the toilet seat down," "give me personal time to unwind if I've had a bad day," "take the trash out before you leave for work so the house doesn't smell," "make an effort to watch DWTS just to spend time with me," etc.. I'd imagine you could go on for a while with these.

    Also - you could talk about physical things you love about him (ego boost:), things you love about how he interacts w/ his family (e.g. he's super close w/ his brother, mom, etc. so you're excited to be a part of his family), or his habits (he's a saver so you know he's investing in your future together).

    Hope this helps!

     
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    gingerkid4god    June 12, 2010   West Virginia

    Also for your book you put really cute pictures of you to in it.

     
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    HoneyBear    March 17, 2012   Texas/ Isla Mujeres

    http://www.lovingyou.com/content/romance/romance101-content.php?ART=iloveyoubecause

    This is a good website that you reminded me of with your question. I hadn't looked at it in a while, but it has tons of really cute, romantic ideas on there!

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    awesome thanks guys!!!  i'll let you know of his response when he gets it!

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    I love his intelligence...he makes medical terminology sound so sexy

    I love his "Johnson's baby shampoo" eyes...LOL! He has big brown eyes that drop down on the outside like the baby on the baby shampoo commercial

    I love the way he treats his parents

    I love his sense of humor...we crack up at the silliest things

    ...I can go on and on

     

     
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    RecessionistaBride    January 28, 2012  

    I could talk about my FI forever so I'll just sum it up! I love my FI's drive, how loving & thoughtful he is and how he makes me feel like the sexiest woman alive.

    I sent my FI a list of 50 reasons why I love him a couple months ago... um 548! I found 50 hard & got really cheesy like:

    "I love you more than I love cookies!" (um they're my weakness)

    "I love you more than I love the smell of rain"

    ... etc. etc. lol

     

     
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    ProudPeacockBride    August 13, 2011   Washington

    I love how he always speaks to me in a low, patient, and soft tone.

    I love how he always puts our family first.

    I love how he works hard, even though it kills him.

    I love how he gives the best bear hugs.

    I love how he's never affraid to act like a child.

    I love how he understands me.

    Aww - *SMILE*

    I needed that! Sometimes in the hussle and bussle of daily life you forget why you're with that person next to ya. Great question!

     

     
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    redherring    September 11, 2010   Pittsburgh, PA

    I love how willing he is to do things to make me happy. All I have to do is ask, and stuff magically gets done. I love how effective he is at writing bitchy emails. There have been a number of times when I was so angry that I just couldn't communicate, and he stepped up and got it done. I love his driving, even though it sometimes makes me carsick! I love that he's finally admitted that he loves my cat, and is helping me in her weight loss efforts. I love his taste, in both the pearl earrings he got for me and the engagement ring he picked out. I love that he introduced me to sailing. I love that when I don't want to go to the gym, he encourages me. I love how competitive he is. I love his laugh. I love his astoundingly strong legs. I love that he'll be a total goofball to make me laugh. I love that he's willing to support me during my period of unemployment. I love that he doesn't want children. I love how amazingly wonderful all of his friends are. I love his intelligence. 

    Wow - I could keep going for ages! But I should probably get some other stuff done today, too :)

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    :D I am on number 127 so far!! i should be fine i have until the 1st. i think some have repeated themselves but that's okay lol...

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    :D I am on number 127 so far!! i should be fine i have until the 1st. i think some have repeated themselves but that's okay lol...

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    bump on 206 and am starting to get writer's block...

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    I am on number 469 and am not fallng asleep, i guess it's a good stopping point!

     
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    MissHelen    November 20, 2010   California

    Aw man.

    I love the way he knows me so well that if I'm upset he knows what's bothering me, even if I don't.

    I love how he lays down with me to go to sleep every night, even if he isn't tired.

    I love the way he loves touching me, both idly and intentionally.

    I love that he holds my hand wherever we go.

    The list goes on...

     

     
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    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    I love how he says "favor" when he says "Will do you me a faaavor?" cause he gets a little bit of a KY drawl.

    I love how he insists on making me try whatever beer he's drinking because he's determined to find me one I like (not. happening)

    I love how, when a customer asks him theological based questions at work, he'll simply say "I'm on company time right now, I'm sorry" instead of getting into a theological debate.

    I love how he gets all snuggly the second he gets into bed to snuggle with me.

    I love how if I even look at something in the grocery store when we're together, he'll get it for me... I should try that with RINGS.

    I love how unbelievably patient he is. Seriously. He's the most patient person I've ever met.

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    okay update to the posting.. I gave him a partial list on Saturday because his car broke down the day before and he was uberly bombed out.. so he was very surprised and loved it, but i stopped with 15 days left so that I can give him the rest of the list on the 1st.  He just grinned number 16 was: I love you because I know that this will make your day a million times better.... and then I got the umm applause I was looking for :P

     
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    Valhalla    June 26, 2010   Vancouver, British Columbia

    I love how FI is a total geek! I'm a geek too, so when I dated guys before I always felt like I had to supress that side of myself at the risk of being a unlikable dork. But FI and I were attracted to each other BECAUSE we were geeks. He saw right through me. We bonded discussing old DOS based computer games we used to play as kids. *Sigh*. He makes me feel so comfortable around him! I have never been happier!

     
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    Rosie Girl    September 18, 2010   Montana

    I love that he loves me for me! No matter what! :)

     
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    bluespurrs    August 7, 2009   South-central PA, USA, Earth

    My hubby is so considerate and I love when he does stuff for me before I even think to ask.

    In love how well he communicates and how he really listens to me when I talk.

    Plus, he tolerates (and even loves) all my cats - VERY important for a catlady who runs a cat sanctuary!

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    today is our 18 month anniversary AND i completed the list!!!

     
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    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    Yay, that's great CRE! So proud of you!

     
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    @km i finished it two weeks ago and gave it to him because he was in a bad mood, i gave him 14-2 earlier in the night and i'll give him the number 1 reason that i love him when he gets home...

     

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