What do you miss the most about your sex life

posted 2 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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2549 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

Nothing.  I like the consistently good sex I get now with a very generous partner.  I don’t miss the “hit or miss” qualities of hook-ups, or not having someone when I need it most.  Nor do I miss the awkwardness or the panic of any encounter that may not have been as safe as it should have been.

Post # 3
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4634 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Nothing.

Having sex while single was so unpredictable.  

Post # 4
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2679 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

I wasn’t having sex when I was single, so I don’t miss a thing! I have someone who takes care of my needs completely and fully and it is awesome!

Post # 5
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7754 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

Absolutely nothing. Dating sucked… Disappointment after embaressing disappointment in and out of bed. My FI is skilled, generous, and uh….well equipped. So I want for nothing 

Post # 6
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6842 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Nothing.

Post # 7
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6617 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

Nothing at all.

Post # 8
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1131 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I missed the hotness and excitement of first encounters, the ego rush of a successful conquest, and the constant flood of new experiences. Of course, married sex is great, too! There are pros and cons to both states.

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

 

PortiaPie:  the only thing I think I *might* miss should I get married to my current SO, is the excitement of something new. I was never really a hook up type, but experiencing someone new was always interesting. Sometimes it was good interesting, sometimes it was hilarious interesting, and sometimes it was flat out bad. But for me whenever I would get to the sex portion of things with a new guy I was dating, it was kind of like biting into a chocolate candy from one of those assorted boxes, ya just never know what you’ll end up with. Sometimes it’s a yummy chewy caramel one or sometimes it was those nasty chocolate covered cherries 🙂 But!!!! beyond this I won’t miss anything. I like the stability, reliability, and intimacy that’s there with my partner.

Post # 10
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1377 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I don’t miss a thing. I was a virgin till I started dating FI, and have been with him since, so I actually never had a ‘single’ girl sex life. 😉 

Post # 11
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851 posts
Busy bee

Nothing. I sleep with wayyy more people now that I’m in a relationship XD

Post # 12
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653 posts
Busy bee

nothing at all!  if you pick the right partner your sex life only gets better!!!!

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

ohnatto:  stardustintheeyes:  Agreed.  I remember the excitement of the awkwardness and newness of my relationship with my DH and what a turn on that was.  I sometimes miss the idea that we won’t have that again, but we have a lifetime of “firsts” ahead of us.  

Not to say I know anything about “married sex”, since I’ve only been married for 5 days lol but I will say the 3 days after the wedding, I was so sexually charged from all the emotions that it was amazing.  

MrsPierce2014:  Exactly.  I was always an LTR girl, so I’m not sure I’ve ever had a single girl sex life.  Not sure what it constitutes, but I think of Samantha from Sex and the City!

Post # 14
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5026 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2050

Mostly the waking up and trying to disentangle my g-string from the pile of sweaty bikers I just crawled out from under. That part was always good for a wistful smile.

Post # 15
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279 posts
Helper bee

Ladies, all of OP’s posts have been about sex and the username is somewhat sex related. Don’t give him what he wants.

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