(Closed) What do you think she meant?

posted 6 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Would you...
    be offended. : (13 votes)
    9 %
    be flattered/complimented. : (32 votes)
    23 %
    be confused. : (93 votes)
    67 %
  • Post # 3
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2012

    I’m not sure what that is supposed to mean, so I would probably just be confused, lol.

    Post # 4
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    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    You don’t know her. She could be a total nutbomb. Why waste any energy worrying about her intent or whether or not you should be offended?

    Post # 5
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: April 2012

    That is probably the strangest thing to say to someone… I don’t even know what that means!?

    The only thing I can come up with is that you seemed really put together and maybe it was a sideways compliment to your ring, but she didn’t want to say “holy cow! your ring is FREAKING GORGEOUS and HUGE!” (sorry, you know how much I love your ring, so any time I can compliment it, I’m going to Wink) so she skirted the issue and made it awkward?

    Post # 6
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    That is bizarre.  I don’t know!

    Post # 7
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Hahahaha.  Just be confused about it.  So many people have different intrepretations of things.  I remember this guy said to me once “One fish, two fish, three fish sea.”  He then signed off of AIM (oh yeah, so cool back then!) and left me puzzled.  I couldn’t figure it out for the life of me what it meant.  I asked others and go so many different opinions.  I finally just let it go.

    Post # 8
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    6249 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 1900

    My first thought was “what an odd compliment.”

    Guess you look good when you get coffee. 😉

    Post # 9
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    She may have saw your beautiful ring, noticed the fact that you were at Starbucks at 11am on a friday when she would then assume that if you were a working woman you’d be at work. Tie that together with the fact that you were probably very well dressed because you were actually working and just taking a break. She probably thought you were engaged to a very rich man and that he dressed you well and that you didn’t have to work.

    I am just assuming this may be it. Was she older? That might explain why she said that because she might have grown up thinking that the man takes care of the woman? Who knows. I wouldn’t be too offended by it, though. Seemed harmsless enough.

    Post # 10
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I have no idea what thats suppose to mean either. I would of just been like “ummm ok? whats that suppose to mean?”

    Post # 11
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    in my experience most of the time when people go out of their way to talk to you in public they are trying to be nice, so I would assume she meant it as some type of a compliment

    Post # 12
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    Do you think she might have meant “well-groomed”? As in, you take good care of yourself? 

    Either way, what a bizarre thing to say!

    Post # 13
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2012 - Glades Pike Winery, Somerset, PA

    o_O That’s definitely very weird. Maybe she meant it offensively, but who cares? She’s some woman you saw for 2 seconds and will probably never see again. But I would definitely be confused by that comment!

    Post # 14
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2014

    Did you have a certain, ahem, glow about you? Or do I just have a dirty mind? That’s the first thing I thought of!

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