What does your man say?

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 3
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6964 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@jadlnc:  I’m FI’s one & only so I don’t even have to ask. He has never put one on himself. He tried the first couple times, but it wasn’t worth the wait. I think it’s an smoother transition when the woman does it anyway. 

Post # 4
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11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@jadlnc:  Worst thing I ever learned about DH! Before me, he had NEVER had sex with a condom! (To be fair, he’ll only have sex with a girl if they’re long-term) And we only used a condom once.

Seriously, between the two of us… It’s incredible no one has herpes!

Post # 5
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8706 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

My husband can use condoms just fine.

Post # 6
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3618 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@jadlnc:  I am also my husbands first and only so I know his history with condoms lol 

He tried to put them on back when we were in highschool (before we has sex) because he wanted to be prepared in case he ever got lucky…Well, after two attempts he gave up and his mom found the rest lol 🙂 

He has never put another condom on and was never successful during his first tries lol 

Post # 8
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1905 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

I’m confused lol, is it customary for the woman to put it on the man? My FI always does it 

Post # 10
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3016 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

My FI, sitting next to me, just said… “Funny you should say that…”

Turns out, until he was in his 30s and single after a long time, he thought the spermicide went on the outside as lube! He had only been with 2 women, and married both of them,  and they were both on the pill… Oi vey!

Post # 11
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7262 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

DH can put the condom on himself

Post # 13
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3016 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

@cls9q:  

@jadlnc:  

I think in my life it’s been 50/50 me or the guy putting on the condom. The girl doing it has a sort of sexiness to it, for some people.

Post # 14
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6964 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2015

@cls9q:  I don’t think it’s “customary”. I assume the man probably does it more than 50% of the time. With my first, he usually did it but I wanted to “try” a couple times. The next guy was a virgin, so I just did it because it was easier. Same with FI. Like I said, it can be a little “smoother” if you do it for him… because you messing with his penis is a lot more exciting them him doing it 😛 But if you don’t know what you’re doing, better to just let him get it done. 

Post # 15
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442 posts
Helper bee

This is pretty funny to me because the first time we had sex, the condom broke and he couldn’t get it off! It was stuck on him for a couple of minutes and apparently it was pretty painful, but I was cracking up. I’m only the second person he’s been with, and the first person was pretty casual and only happened a few times, so he doesn’t have a ton of experience.

Post # 16
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8518 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2014

Opposite here, I’ve never put a condom on him. He always does it.

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