What Event Melts Your Butter? Fun!

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
  • poll: What event melts your butter?
    Weddings! Its all that love in the air... and the booze too. : (58 votes)
    81 %
    Funerals. This is more for fun, but hey! Whatever shakes your thang! : (0 votes)
    Other? Comments for explanation. : (14 votes)
    19 %
  • Post # 3
    2057 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2014 - British Columbia

    Heh, any family events mean we have to put forth our best behaviour; i.e. not fun. Vacations in general would be the only events that melt both my FI and my butter… hah!

    Post # 4
    10219 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Wedding are romantic… I don’t care who is getting married, I’m all a-ga.

    Mr TTR too, he’s sentimental like that.

    We may or may not get it on back at the Hotel afterwards, lol depends a lot on how much “celebrating” we’ve done with the loving couple, as there is a point where alcohol goes from being a stimulant to being a detriment.

    Funerals don’t turn my crank… at our ages (50 & 60) they happen way too often, be it with older Relatives, or sadly friends who are losing out to diseases like Heart Disease & Cancer

    (Once you get to 50, the world does a TILT and more folks begin to die.  It sucks being 50+)

    Vacations, now that rocks our boat (literally).  Lots of butter melting on a vacation !!



    Post # 5
    635 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I voted other…  Neither weddings nor funerals do anything for me… but like

    @This Time Round said… VACATIONS are what cranks my tractor!!!

    Post # 7
    9412 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    @iDreamofJune:  I have to be honest, I was picturing melting butter for baking and I was going to tell you that it doesn’t come out the same. I tried it for shortbread before and it was a disaster.

    Now that I understand, I will say that we are quite a sexual couple to begin with. We especially love our weekend getaways and vacations but I also find that any emotional event can draw us closer together…which makes us want that intense emotional connection.

    Post # 8
    805 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    the last wedding i went to felt like a funeral. it was soooo boring and dry, we left right after. i didnt want to further the “party” plus i wasnt close to the couple or anyone there and it was a bad vibe the whole day. no one was smiling and they kept playing funeral style gospel music. i was sooo ready to go…..

    Post # 9
    1526 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Weddings are great – but we dont really need any help getting in the mood.  Basically anything that gets us out of our regular routine helps spice up our lives.

    Post # 11
    6953 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2015

    @iDreamofJune:  I have no idea why but I seem to always get frisky when we’ve spent the day with HIS sisters. Weird right? It’s not like I want to reward good behavior. It’s not like it’s a romantic situation. I have no idea what does it. 

    Post # 12
    6953 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2015

    Oh, and I will add vacations too, but isn’t that a given? Whenever we’re planning a get away one of us talks about looking forward to “dirty hotel sex”. I don’t even think we’re any dirtier in hotels!

    Post # 13
    2696 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Weddings too, but it’s the mini moons we take all the time. We have a really good time. 🙂

    Post # 14
    2111 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    @iDreamofJune:  Either, but mostly because either event requires FI to step out of his jeans and shirts and dress up. He’s so hot in his “formal” clothes. Yum.

    Post # 16
    650 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I always feel sexy after weddings! Romance (and alcohol) as you said in the air, and we are dressed up, and often in a hotel with a KING SIZE BED!!! Let’s be real… the bed is really what turns me on!!! 

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