- 5 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
I recently got engaged this past weekend and I called my best friend she now lives overseas with her family, The first thing she said to me was are you sure you want to do this? I kept my cool and was like what do you mean she said that FI is not christian he is Hindu, what religion will your kids follow? Are you serious? what BS is that I told her I love him he is a wonderful man and we have been together close to 6 years so why would someone say that. I have decided never to mention my wedding plans to her. I even felt like cutting her out of my life. What are your thoughts about this has this happened to you?
I also told a close friend her wedding is this year August I told her I am engaged and first thing she said was you cant have a wedding this year its late, I thought to myself that is she jealous that I will take the shine out of her wedding planning after all there are 8 months left for the rest of 2013 so I can have my wedding in 2013 if FI and I decide to.
I am being faced with some negative remarks from friends once I announced our engagement not everyone but some make snarky remarks, is this common? I think I am just going to let it go and remove those people of the guest list.