What happens when a first date STARTS with a kiss….

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

MsBeer:  I love this post!Your sense of humour had me chuckling away here lol. Good for you OP,i found this very uplifting and as much as it gave you some faith in there being some wonderful men out there,it also gives people like myself the faith too. 

Sending you every best wish for you and your new guy!

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

MsBeer:  This is amazing. Good for you for getting what you want and being able to leave a situation in which you were unhappy…some girls dont have the guts. I LOVE your kiss idea, very genius and I’m so glad it worked out for you. This post gave me a warm and fuzzy feeling. My advice is to still take it a bit slow with Mr. Wonderful and I hope things work out for the best! Congrats!

 

Post # 6
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103 posts
Blushing bee

Aww.  That’s awesome!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

Good for you!  I let go of my man child of a BF and was dating my now FI two weeks later (and had kissed him “technically” before our first date)   It totally does take off the nerves!   Some people are just worth saying good bye too and once you get rid of the clutter, you find what you are looking for. 

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014 - The Celebration Farm

I completely understand the feeling of how refreshed you feel when you get rid of a dud and finally fell free again. What a great first date. I hope you guys continue to fall for each other!

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

MsBeer:  so happy for you hun!! You deserve someone so amazing! 

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - Valparaiso, IN

Way to get back in the field so quickly! I met my husband two weeks after I broke up with a guy I thought I was going to marry. We didn’t kiss on the first date, that came two months later. Haha  Here’s to you two!!

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

MsBeer: Congratulations! I have a pretty similar story. Broke up with my BF a few days after our 4 year anniversary because we’d been talking about marriage for almost a year and then he sprung on me that he wasn’t “sure” what he wanted. Well I didn’t know what he wanted either, but it obviously wasn’t me because if he wanted to be with me he’d know after 4 years (and 3 of living together)! I cried only when he tried to keep one of our dogs, but I ended up taking both of them and moved out immediately. Made an OkCupid account a few days later and thought I wanted to casually date. Met 1 person and we have been together for a year and a half. He knows he wants to marry me and it is the best relationship or friendship I have ever had. Life has a way of working out!

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

MsBeer:  I loved reading your story because it reminded me so much of how DH and I met….thankfully, without the bad breakup beforehand. After being single for about 5 years and getting all my “life stuff” done, I decided that “hey, it’s free communication weekend, I should sign up for eHarmony just to see what it’s all about”. Well, I figured it would take months and maybe even years before I found someone, so I signed up for the year long subscription since it worked out to be the cheapest per month.

After talking to 2 guys and going out with 1, I started talking to DH whose profile I had seen before, but kind of just left there on my match list as a “maybe” After a day or online talking, and 4 days of texting and talking over the phone, I drove over an hour to see him (since I had no idea of what to do for a date in my area), and had a wonderful 12 hour date which ended in us making out in his car like high school kids (which I never thought would happen).

It was definitely a whirlwind romance, but we surprisingly, never felt like it was going too fast. 10 months later, he proposed. Usually, it would have freaked me out, but something was different this time with him. I had never felt more safe, confident, and like myself. I keep thinking, if I hadn’t been bored that day and signed up for eHarmony, we never would have met.

Sorry for the long story, just got super excited at the similarities! Congratulations!!

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