What has been the hardest part of wedding planning for you?

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
277 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@jordyanna:  Hands down its been justifying the cost of the wedding.

For me, I’d prefer a new house (ours isn’t working for us any longer) and a new vehicle.  I’d be happy eloping.  

For my SO, he needed (yes, pretty much needed) the wedding and so did his family.

Its been hard to justify spending that amount on one day of our lives when theres so many other things we could use it for. House especially.  I’m also in school for my Masters too and the tuition is crazy.  I also love to travel, and with the wedding costs, all trips are on hold this year.  I hate our Sask. winters and not getting away to someplace warm is making me stir-crazy.

At the same time, if I am forced to have a wedding here (and we pretty much were), I want it to be nice. Thats how I am, a perfectionist.  So while we could maybe drop off a few thousand in cost, it wouldn’t feel right so I’m trying to pull this off and then continue saving to build up the other things we want in life.

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