Post # 1
- Wedding: August 2013 - An amazing non-profit retreat
It seems like the closer we get to our wedding date, the more awesome he is, knowing that I am stressed and trying to keep it in check. Tonight he recorded The Wedding Singer (my favourite!) and filled my wine glass. It’s those little things!
What little things has your guy done for you latey that makes you so happy to be spending your life with him?
Post # 3
- Wedding: May 2014 - Royalton White Sands
Mine remembered our date! He’s horrible with remembering things like that, so it was kind of a big deal. I haven’t even mentioned it lately.
Post # 4
My fiance took our chair covers to the dry cleaners without me asking!! We are less than 30 days away and it feels great to have some help!! <3
Post # 5
He interceded when my stepmom was verbally laying into my dad, making my brother who is mentally ill very upset. This is unusual for him, FI’s a chill, quiet guy. I really appreciated it.
Post # 6
His Facebook post first thing this morning was “T-minus one month” and he tagged me in it. He never ever posts on facebook but i love that He remembers the date and that he’s excited to share wedding stuff with people.
Post # 7
We just moved in together at FI’s house, and I’ve been really touched at how he’s making such an effort to make it an easy and positive transition for me (he knows how sad I was to move out of my house, which I owned and had really made my own over the last three years). He goes out of his way to tell me how glad he is to have me (and my dog!) living with him, and he worked hard getting the spare room cleaned/repainted/fixed up to be “my” room (aka the guest room, but with my bedroom suite). He even hired a contractor fix up the closet, he’s like my own Mr. Big!
Post # 8
Fi has been awesome by not strangling me this week- the combination of wedding stress, a few new BIG work projects, PMS and him going away for two weeks left me sobbing and screetching at him like a harpy the other night. He walked away and gave me my space and then came back and hugged me and told me he loved me and he would help me with whatever I wanted. I probably would have screamed right back at me. He is truly 100x more patient than me.
Post # 9
My FI helped me build a cage and let me get guinea pigs!!! They are a ton of work, and still super skittsih, but they are slowly warming up to us. Last night when FI came home from work he went over to talk to them and Zuko popcorned for the first time. I’m still super excited about my guinea pigs.
Post # 10
Awwww I love this! He’s been giving me more foot rubs and adopted a calmer demeanor. He’s been awesome at talking me down when I’ve been stressed with wedding and work.
Post # 11
He is my husband now but he bought me the first issue of the new X-Files comic!!!! AHHHHHHH I was so excited.
Post # 12
I had a panic attack in public and he held me and calmed me down (I was so bad I was burying my face in his neck as I was turning red and crying 🙁 ) So embarrassing but when I said I was sorry for embarrassing him his first words were “you’re not embarassing me…. I was only thinking ‘how can I help you?'” Made me cry more but in a good way!
Post # 13
@bkrocks13: This – I am so NOT a patient person, I need to take lessons from FI…
Post # 14
DH supported me when I decided to quit my part-time nannying gig! It was like $300/week, so it was lucrative! But I was SO miserable!
Post # 15
Yesterday he vacuumed my car and cleared all the junk out! Total surprise!
Post # 16
He did a TON of research on songs for the wedding, and he came with me to run all of the wedding errands I had to do yesterday. The boring, girly wedding errands. And he has pretty much zero interest in the planning, so this was kind of a big deal!