(Closed) What heights do you consider short, average, and tall?

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Post # 3
1558 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

For Women:

Short: Under 5’2″

Average: 5’2″-5’7″

Tall: 5’8″-6′ (I’m 5’10”)

Really Tall: 6’+

Post # 4
33 posts
  • Wedding: May 2015

@PaisleyMedic:  This is goofy but I think it depends on location and where you’re at. I live in Michigan and I’m 5’7 and considered average and a lot of times considered short actaully. My high school graduaitng class the girls “normal height” was 5’9. Almost all my girlfriends are taller than me! So really, I think it depends on location! lol

Post # 5
436 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

@PaisleyMedic:  I know what you mean. I am 5’7, I consider myself  average. So I think the height you are and the people you spend the most time with personally changes what you consider tall/short..So I am including guys too….My SO is 6’5″…. 

For girls:

Short: 5’2″ or under

Average: 5’3″ to 5’8″

Tall: 5’9″ and up

For guys:

Short: 5’7″ and under

Average: 5’8″ to 5’11”

Tall: 6’0″ and up


Also, just have to say. I have a friend who is 5″5″, and she refers to herself as “so short and petite”. It irritates the HELL out of me. She is not short at all. She is well within the average in the US.

Post # 6
1846 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Im 5’4″… I’m always referred to as short. Like always.

I personally consider 5’2″ and under petite, 5’3″-5’6″ average, and 5’7″+ tall.

Post # 7
2610 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014 - Madison, WI

I’m 5′ 8″ and consider myself average to tall.

So I guess I would condsider

  • At or Under 5’3″ – Short
  • 5’4″ to 5’7″ – Average
  • 5’8″ Up – Tall

Post # 8
5221 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m 5’8 and people think I am some gigantic lochness monster half of the time. I consider myself tall, but I consider to be REALLY tall 5’10- over 6 ft.

Really short to be 5’1 and under and everyone else just kind of falls in the middle for me


Post # 9
12250 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

The only issue I have with average height of women in the US is that it takes into account a LOT of very little, very old ladies! Women have gotten taller over the last couple of generations.

My Grandmother swears she was the tallest woman she ever ran across in the 50s, but at 5’7″, she’s only slightly tall now!

I think for young women,

Less than 4’10” is REALLY short

4’11”-5’3″ is short

5’3″-5’7″ is average

5’8″-6″ is tall

And anything over 6″ is REALLY tall!

Post # 10
315 posts
Helper bee

I’m 5’3″ and have always been considered “short” (by others and myself!)

So I’d say for women:
Short: Under 5’4″
Average: 5’4″-5’9″
Tall: Over 5’9″

For men…
Short: Under 5’7″
Average: 5’7″-6′
Tall: Over 6′

Post # 11
1461 posts
Bumble bee

Interesting…I had to explain to my Fiance the other day that being petite had nothing to do with being thin. He was baffled when I picked a dress out for his mom is a 14p. But she’s still 5’2.”

For me….

under 4’10” – possible medical disorder…dwarfism

4’11” to 5’3″ – short/petite

5’4″ to 5’7″ – average

5’8″ to 6’1″ – tall (I fall in this category)

6’2″-6’4″ – tall as shit

6’5 and up – possible medical abnormality….gigantism

Post # 12
1220 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

I think some people use the word petite to describe skinny. Petite refers to height only (i.e. someone can be plus size & petite)

Post # 13
167 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

For a woman:

Short = 5’3″ or under

Average = 5’4″ – 5’7″

Tall = 5’8″ +

Post # 14
379 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I have a little bit of a skewed perception from playing college basketball (and being 6’2″) 

Short – anything under 5’6″

Average – between 5’6″ and 5’10”

Tall – between 5’10” and 6’4″

Really tall – over 6’4″

It’s all about perspective 🙂

Post # 15
548 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013


short under 5’4″, average 5’4″-5’7″, tall 5’8″ and up


short under 5’8″, average 5’8″-5’11”, tall 6′ and up


1) I’m 5’2″ and am certainly considered short. I also happen to have a very petite frame in general though so my small stature is noticed more often than my height.

I think with wedding dress fit if you’re 5’2″ you still have a “short” frame if you’re wearing 4 inch heels, the dress does not fit as if you are 5’6″. So I guess if people are looking for short bride dress advice, you still have the same concerns regardless of heel height. 

2) petite and short are not the same thing. You can be 5’9 with super long legs and need petite blouses for your short midsection or you can be 5’0″ and not have the shape for many petite clothes. 

Post # 16
1722 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

@QuirkySocialite:  I know you aren’t trying to be mean and you probably don’t say anything inrl but I can’t tell you how many people have asked whats wrong with me because of my height (4’10”) assuming I’m sick or have a disorder or something. It sucks to hear because there is nothing wrong with me and it makes me feel terrible about myself. It took a long time for me to be ok with my height and now I gladly tell people how tall I am but it always takes me to a negative place when people assume sometging is wrong with me.   So just be careful with your assumptions when you come across someone who is really short or tall.

I say under 5’3″ is short and someone over 5’8″ is tall 

Post # 17
517 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

All the tall girls consider me to be short once they find out my height but the reaction to my height is always shock, I’m 5’3 but I look about 5’5 (long legs/torso)


Under 5’2 – petite

5’3-5’7- average

5’8+ – tall

When I say petite I mean size in general, you can be average size in clothes but you’re still smaller than me in height so I consider that petite


Post # 18
208 posts
Helper bee

@Giraffelover:  I knew a few of those.  I’m 5’2″ and I had a friend who was 5’1″ and would always talk about how she wished she was as tall as me. BITCH PLEASE.

Then I knew someone who would refer to herself as petite and she was crazy average.  I mean like.. 5’5″ and 135 lbs.  Gorgeous, but not petite.

Post # 19
8424 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012


Short under 5’2″

Average 5’3″ to 5’8″

Tall anything over 5’8″

To me the ideal height would be 5’7″. I an 5’5″ but would love to have a couple more inches!

Post # 20
2262 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Short: 5’4 or under

Average: 5’5 – 5’8

Tall: 5’9 +

Post # 21
9431 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

For women Id say

5’4 and under is short

5’5-5’7 is average

5’8+ is tall

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