Post # 1
- Wedding: May 2014 - Garden
I was inspired by this post by chillinchillin to ask myself that about my relationship.
- I think he would change my weight, before me, he dated skinny girls, I am a happy 4/6 sized girl, I would be happy too if I lose 5kg. I can change that. Check!
- He would also change the fact that I am not very finance savvy, like him. If I see something I like, and I can, I’ll buy it. I’m having a difficult time now that we are saving for the wedding because I can only window shop and that makes me sad :(. But hey, being financialy responsible is a good thing, so it is something I’m learning. Check!
- Maybe my family. I have a lot of family issues, whereas his family is very supportive of each other. That’s somehing he has learned to live with, but that doesn’t mean that it makes him happy. And there’s nothing I can do about it, so uncheck.
Those are three things that come to my mind right now, what about you girls?
Post # 3
He would definitely want me to be better at dealing with stress. I get overwhelmed easily and I’m over sensitive . I don’t think their is much else he’s forever telling me that he is lucky to have me ahhh love him so much:)
Post # 4
- Wedding: October 2014 - Ranch
I have gained 50lbs in the course of our 9-Year relationship, and even though he says he isn’t bothered by it, I am sure he would love it if I lost it. I am working on it!
He would also change that I buy everything I see and love. He is definitely the money smart one in the relationship. I am also working on it.
I will ask him tonight and come back with some of this answers 🙂
Post # 5
He would never say it, but I think he would change my weight. I’ve gained about 30 pounds since we started dating. I think a great deal of it comes from the fact that I’m less happy at this size.
I also think he’d change how emotional I am… I get my feelings hurt too easily.
Post # 6
He would make me more of a cuddler! He’s definitely more the touchy-feely one in our relationship, and I only take it in small doses.
Post # 7
He would probably make me less emotional and “touchy.” Tears are my reaction to every human emotion, lol. Happy? Cry. Sad? Cry. Scared? Cry. It’s really a mess and I admire FI for handling with such aplomb.
Post # 8
I asked him and he said “no hair on your legs so you don’t have to be bothered.”
LOL! out of all the things I was imagining…. I didn’t expect that one.
Post # 9
My attitude sucks at times because I can be very abrupt at times. Im sure thats the #1 thing he’d appreciate.
Post # 10
He would want me to not be so snappy sometimes. Also, he says I spend too much money shopping.
Post # 11
I asked my FI what he would change about me and he said that I need to learn to share my desserts and soda. He’s totally right though, I always drink all the soda. Not sharing dessert really depends on the dessert though, if it’s something I really like, he’s probably not getting more than two or three bites lol.
Post # 12
I actually asked this question once. Answer: “I wish you weren’t in pain all the time.”
Can’t fix it, but it’s nice of my FI to say it, and far better than some other things people have wished they could change about me.
Post # 13
@SuspiciousCoconut: Similar to what my FI said! I have chronic migraines plus sciatica, so not a day goes by that I dont have to take a pain pill for something.
What he wont say, but that I believe he would change, is how quickly I can go from 0 to 10. I get my feelings hurt by the smallest things some times and I lash out, when I should just take a step back and have a good breather.
Post # 14
@MsMonkey: +1 on the too emotional thing. I think SO would change that about me too. I have gained ten pounds since we met but he wouldn’t change that about me because he told me once he thought I was a little underweight when he first laid eyes on me.
Post # 15
I know he would wish that i was less messy!
Post # 16
@vitaminshake: I already know he would change my worry wart ways. I tend to let the what ifs bother me and he’s always trying to talk me out of worrying and getting upset. He’d probably also change the fact that I’m easily irritated ESPECIALLY around that time of the month.