Post # 1
I have a few. I’m always trying to find a good balance with friends. It always seems like I am either TOO anti-social, or annoying my friends. I can never find a good balance between the two, so that’s one thing I’m struggling with. Another thing is trying to work full time, go to school full time, come home every night and make dinner, clean the house, etc. BUT that’s just about everyone on this Earth…trying to do everything at once, so I know I can do that.
What would you say is something you’re trying to overcome right now?
Post # 3
motivation! My wedding is in less than 5 months, I have a wedding dress that doesn’t fit, and I have no motivation to work out or eat better. Craziness.
Post # 4
procrastination! i have always been a huge procrastinator. right now i’m on weddingbee instead of getting a project done for work that needs to be finished today. i’ve been saying i was going to email officiants for like 2 weeks now and i still haven’t. our apartment is a mess and we’re having people over for dinner, so i’ll probably be cleaning at like 7pm (they’re coming at 7:30). it’s terrible but it’s a bad habit that i just can’t break.
Post # 5
ex-wives and other bullshitters
Post # 6
@CorgiTales: I know how you feel 🙁 I’m not fat in any way, but I have these STUPID love handles that I wish I could just make go away! It’s like I get the motivation and work out, but in like a week I see no progress and I’m just like what’s the point….
@pb and j: I’m the SAME WAY. I have a test at 2 and I barely studied for it 🙁 I’m probably not going to do so well on it…and I don’t know WHY I didn’t study. And I clean at the last minute too..lol.
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Post # 8
(lack of) Motivation + procrastination + wedding bee = me not getting anything done.
Right now I am in the middle of remodelling & renovating our house as well as landscaping our 3/4 acres — or at least I am supposed to be.
I am also supposed to be finishing quite a few pieces of work (art) atm, but I haven’t been able to find the motivation.
Post # 9
Getting my darn dog to sleep thru the night! She’s 8 months old and since last Wednesday, she’s been getting up at 2:30, 3:00, 3:30, 5:00, 1:00, etc… we crate her at night so she cries and carries on until you get up and let her out. DH is working out of town right now so it’s me who has to get up every night and I’m exhausted!!
Post # 10
Adjusting to a new life in every aspect. I have a new manager at work as well as an entire new management team who make work very difficult and I am adjusting to a new home and new responsibilities.
Post # 11
I feel like when I was a BM for all my closest friends I was really on top of things and super helpful and respectful. I’m getting NEITHER back from any of them. Some of them have kids now and my wedding is just not a big deal anymore. ONe of my pregnant BMs (she’ll have the baby 6 months before the wedding) actually told me that if I cared about what I looked like on my wedding day then my “priorites are effed up”. I guess that’s the pregnancy talking. When I found “the dress” my sister and best friend were int he next room trying on prom dresses fro fun, totally disinterested. That’s my obstacle. No one seems as caught up in this as I hoped!
Post # 12
The biggest obstacle I’m trying to overcome right now is getting out of debt. Other than that it would be that I need to stop procrastinating! (And probably get off the Bee and get back to work…)
Post # 13
The consequences from taking on too much my freshman year of college. Not to say that I wouldn’t have worked as many hours (it was necessary at that time, now I work a job where I get paid slightly more, and my fiance and I split rent, so finances are more stable) but I would have taken an easier courseload. It screwed up my GPA and now that I’m in more difficult classes, it’s harder to raise my Psych/science GPA like I need to for grad school applications.
Post # 14
Waiting to find out when our wedding date can be. The army needs to tell FI when his training will be done before we will know the date for sure…
Post # 15
Losing weight. I was pregant for a few months (miscarried) and during that time I ate a TON! I was always starving, no matter how much I ate, and only craved carbs. Everything else made me want to puke. So now I have no baby and a lot of extra weight. I’m trying to lose before I get pregnant again.
Post # 16
I’m struggling with keeping everyone happy. My family, friends, boss, fiance and plan a wedding. Its draining me 🙁