Post # 1
Bee’s please tell me what is it about your SO that puts a smile on your face. That feeling you get that makes you think Wow he really was made for me.
For me it’s the fact that I can totally act as silly as I can and he does not judge me. example waking him up early in the morning June 1, singing it’s my birthday month I can do no wrong ( while jumping on him). Or when I get so upset he just comes up to me and kisses me. It’s like he never gets tired of my randomness or my tantrums I throw. I love how he always kisses me early in the morning every day.
Post # 3
That we can be total goof balls together no matter what we are doing. I also like that we are each very independent and don’t need to be with each other 100% of the time!
Post # 4
For me, it’s that my FH is, quite simply, a male version of me. We’re so similar & in tune with each other it’s utterly uncanny. It’s such a breath of fresh air to finally live with someone where I can be 100% myself and not be judged for that or feel pressure to be different. My parents, particularly my mother have a bad habit of making snarky, judgmental comments and basically dissing things I’m excited about without even realising they’re doing it and it’s so freaking amazing to just be me, completely silly & crazy, and be loved for that. And FH is equally nutter butter and we just click. It’s been that way from our very first date.
Post # 5
He’s the most selfless, loving man I have ever met. He loves me for who I am.
Post # 6
@GlamMeup: ermagerd its my birfday month tooooo!! *high five!* i should sing that song to MY fi and see what he does lol
my FI puts a smile on my face for a myriad of reasons but to name a few: hes so very sweet, he accepts my goofiness at all times. he puts up with me shaking him awake every morning I’m with him to go out to Dunkin and get coffee or go out for breakfast. He cooks very well, and he cleans, and hes every bit the domestic god that I am not lol! He is incredibly supportive in all I do.
Post # 7
@Omgbunnies: Yes I have been singing that song to him for the past 5 years. I also love singing it when I know he might be upset with me. He just laughs after
i love it 🙂 I honestly love hearing everyone’s stories. It’s amazing to find someone that accepts you for who you are 🙂 very happy for all you lovely bees
Post # 8
I don’t believe in soulmates or The One, but I think the fact that our relationship dynamic is very different from others but very natural and comforting, the fact that we can be completely ourselves with each other, is what makes me love him so very much.
Post # 9
He listens & he pays attention.. he usually knows there is something wrong with me before I do. Oh and he is very affectionate, we kiss ALL the time and we are constantly cuddling on the couch… And he is awesome with my daughter. and we both love football and watching movies together… There is a lot that I love about my Fiance!!
Post # 10
He takes care of me. Anecdote:
Where we live, when you go to the movie theater, you pick out your seats when you buy the ticket. (So you don’t have to go in and sit there for half an hour just to get good seats.) He always wants to sit nearer to the front and in this theater, SOME of the rooms have really awesome seating where even the front is good. So I said “lets do the 3rd row this time.”
We go in a little early ’cause we made good time getting there and I hate the seats. It’s one of the rooms with the low front row instead of the high front row and the top frames of my glasses are obstructing my view. I’m SUPER excited to see this movie and the seat issue is obviously bumming me out.
So he hugs me, squeezes my arm, and tells me he’ll be right back, and goes all the way down to the reception area (it’s a bit of a trek, the theater has a really weird layout) and asks them to change our seats. Mind you, we live in Korea, and don’t speak Korean almost at all. (American movies are subbed in Korean, so we can just watch them as usual.)
He comes back and tells me we’re moving back two rows to a spot that was front-enough for him but where my glasses wouldn’t get in the way.
Now, the theater was almost empty. He could have just tried to get me to move back two rows… but he knew it’d make me nervous that someone else would come late, buy those seats, and confront us (I have anxiety, including social, and I’d basically die. Night would be ruined.) So he went through the huge pain in the ass to go through the proper channels JUST to move us back two rows just so I’d be more happy and comfortable.
😀 So… he takes care of me.
Post # 11
Aww, I love this thread. I’ll play!
For me, it’s the fact that he doesn’t judge me at all and I can be completely myself around him. I am also a random, silly person but he loves my randomness.
He’s very protective of me and he can’t stand to see me upset. So he’ll move heaven and earth to make me happy and cheer me up.
Like a PP said, he also takes care of me. I’m hard of hearing and whenever we go out in social situations, he’s always looking out for me and making sure I can hear. Sometimes he is my interpreter lol.
And last but not least…due to my hearing, I was often called stupid when I was growing up. Just because I didn’t hear something or I misheard, they would automatically think I was stupid. Because of that, I’m very sensitive to that. You can insult my looks or any other trait about me, but NOT my intelligence.
I’ve had previous guys make me feel stupid whenever I say something silly or whatever, when I’m just trying to be goofy. But not my BF. I know I can say the stupidest things around him and he will never make me feel like an idiot. It might not mean much to others but it means the world to me.
Lol and now I feel like messaging my BF and telling him that I love him 🙂
Post # 12
For me, it’s because for 10 years he’s been my best friend. when my first husband cheated on me and our marriage ended, my dad’s health wasn’t great, my grandmother passed away, my mums health wasn’t good. I lost my home and lots of “friends”.
My lovely now FI actually saved my life (I was depressed and had a breakdown) I thank him every day for his love and support. We have a great life together and I’m so thankful for new beginnings and finding true love.
Post # 13
@GlamMeup: His laugh and the way he does goofy dances to try to put people in a good mood.
Post # 14
@tmsing: omg his silly dancing I love it. I love doing my crazy dance moves out of no where for my FI
Post # 15
My SO can be pretty quiet and contemplative, but when we’re alone he opens up into a wonderfully romantic, silly, and adorable person. Seriously he has huge eyes and when he pouts it’s so hard to say no to him.
Post # 16
My DH is a very Godly man who possesses strong character and integrity and who is highly intelligent, well educated, speaks and writes well, and is supremely quick-witted and has and incredibly strong sense of humor!
I love that he is able to be there for me in any situation (except shopping, which he detests! ) and that he is always making me laugh!