What is the proper response to engagement cards?

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
9137 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

You should always send a thank you note for the cards that include money or gifts.  Just don’t mention the wedding plans or date if you don’t plan to invite them.

Post # 4
650 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I send a thank you email for the thoughtful card!

Post # 5
729 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I would definitely say send a card. It’s thoughtful of them to send it to you. I’m sure they’ll appreciate it. If you’re not sure if they’re getting an invite, just don’t say something like “See you at the wedding!” (I had someone say that to me at our engagement party – she was someone we for sure were not inviting lol it was a bit awkward.)

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