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One of the bloggers I read just had a post about how her mom didn't let her have coloring books growing up because she thought they stifled creativity. Then she asked her readers to name the weirdest rules they had growing up-- and the answers were so interesting!
I actually have a really hard time think of weird rules from my parents because they were pretty lenient with me and I had less rules than most of my friends. My mom did have a strict no pop before 12pm and only 1 pop per day rule... but that makes total sense imo and I never really fought it.
My dad always tells about how when he was a kid on Christmas morning his parents' rule was that he and his sisters ALL had to eat the entire orange in their stocking before waking his parents up. Basically just to give them an extra 20 minutes to sleep lol.
So what about you? What weird rules did you have growing up? Or do you have weird rules for your kids?
We use to have to get changed for dinner, like as in put on a dress and everything. (I have a pretty old school family lol)
Also my grandmother wouldn't allow us to have anything with birds, ie if you got a card with a brid on it she would cut the bird out, same with books, ect. She grew up in a very superstitious family, and it's carried on for generations lol. (FYI I have nothing aganist birds lol)
Also if one of us got grounded, like my parents would ground us from the computer, they would unplug the keyboard and keep it in the trunk of their car, so there was no way we could use it. lol
I like the one pop per day rule! I think all parents should do that.
The weirdest one I can think of right now is that my parents never let me watch soap operas or MTV the entire time I lived at their house. I understand limiting TV like that during elementary and even middle school, but when I was a senior in high school i would get in trouble if I was caught watching either. I thought that was weird. Meanwhile, they didn't care much if I drank with friends.
I honestly can't think of any weird rules my parents had for us. I'll have to ponder ......
Curious to hear everyone's answers though!
i wasn't allowed to watch "jem" because she had pink hair and my dad said that she was a social misfit hahahaha
ETA: just thought of the irony because my little sister has pink hair now and no one seems to care ha
My dad declared no starting on homework after school until I watched the Beetlejuice cartoon first, and no playing on Saturday until after Bugs Bunny was over. I didn't really mind those weird rules. :) He did know what was important sometimes.
@moderndaisy: haha that is kind of funny. I wasn't allowed to watch simpsons, which I guess was weird because I WAS allowed to watch R rated movies. I think by hs i probably could've watched simpsons but I just didn't care.
lol I can tell this is going to be a funny thread. I always felt like my mom was quite strict with us growing up compared to other kids mom's. She was/is a clean freak. Mainly she didn't let us have a lot of sleepovers in the fear of getting lice from other children. She also didn't like us trying on hats at the store in fear of lice hiding in the hats haha. We always had to put toilet paper on public washroom seats or squat because she didn't want us touching it. Had to open the door with paper towel (I still do those two things lol) Oh and she wouldn't let us play in the ditches to catch tadpoles and so we got upset because ALLLL the other kids got to and we weren't allowed. haha omg looking back it's hilarious
I didn't have too many weird rules, but my mom was pretty anal about some things. Not allowed to leave your toothbrush out of the cupboard or drawer because when you flush the toilet it spreads germs, not allowed to touch the shower curtain before washing your hands even if you're about to have a shower (fancy white one), etc. etc. CLEAN FREAK! lol
Also, I was a straight A student so my parents had this rule with me that I could have a lot of flexibility as long as I kept my grades up. If I didn't feel like going to school one day I didn't have to go. If I wanted to drink I was allowed in moderation. If I got a a B, however, well I was on lock down. No friends, no phone, no computer, and driven to and from school for a month. lol.
It all worked out in the end. I think I'm pretty well-rounded...most of the time!
Edit: Oh the bird thing reminded me of something! My grandmother wouldn't allow me to have anything with butterflys on it...especially not for your hair. I guess when my uncle was young his girlfriend was abducted and later found murdered (sad, I know)...she was wearing a butterfly in her hair. Superstitious grandma!
My parents hated call waiting and we weren't allowed to have it on any of the phone lines in the house. They thought it was rude. My mom would actually hang up on people who would put her on hold for another call. They finally got it but they still won't pick up another call, but they know to check the caller ID after the call is over. So needless to say I am still not 'allowed' to pick up another call if I am on the phone with my parents.
my parents also had a rule that we weren't allowed to have tv's in our bedrooms, my little sister is 20 and just moved back in... they still won't budge on that rule lol
We weren't allowed to watch Looney Toons because my mom said the characters didn't respect each other. But Pulp Fiction was just fine.
Also, we had to unplug the TV every night. Something about sending negative cancerous energy throughout the house.
@mrs.peters.to.be: my parents were the same way, particularly in my last year of high school when I could drive. My gpa was 4.2 (honors classes = 5pts), so my mom said if I could handle keeping my grades up I could go or not go when I wanted. I generally took at least one "mental health day" per week. In my second semester my spanish teacher threatened to fail me for missing so much class! Which was super dumb because I was getting an A lol. Needless to say, she did not fail me :)
@Lovebird724: Aww Jem was my personal hero! She was all kinds of awesome.
I wasn't allowed to watch Tiny Toons when I was little because my mom said they were "disrespectful to authority" and in one episode they had a séance.
I have a funny one from my Mum. I don't know how much of a "rule" it was, but she would say it all the time. Before we went to sleepaway camp. Before our first day of school. When I left for collage. And it was not reserved for just my siblings and myself either, she would say it to our friends before we would go out to parties, etc....
From my mum, "If it's wet, and not yours, don't touch it."
Can you tell she is a teacher?? I used to get so embarrased and weirded out as a kid. But now I think it is hysterical!! Oh her other rule was "no open mouth kissing if you or the other person has braces." Hahahaha. Oh mum, I love you.
All during highschool, I had to be home by 8pm on weeknights - even if I was at a supervised church activity and/or it was summer time. There was a whole list of tv shows/movies that we couldn't watch (and it was public television! They only got cable after I moved to college.)
When I was about 14 and didn't clean my room as they wanted, they actually removed my bedroom door and took all of my things away except for a few clothes. Considering I was a straight A student and very involved in a lot of extracurricular things, I didn't think that was very fair.
My parents would unscrew the cable from the the TV so we wouldn't watch it after school...but we figured out how to fix that pretty quickly haha!
We moved during the middle of high school and once we did they were really relaxed with us becuase they felt pretty badly about moving two teenagers across the country.
@EvaBostonTerrier: lol so similar (but much more justified) thing happened to my brother. See, we had normal bedroom doors with locks. But one time when he was in high school he fell asleep in his room with music on (and he is the world's heaviest sleeper) during the afternoon. My mom tried to knock on his door to wake him up, but he wouldn't wake up. Both my parents were pounding on the door at one point, but still nada. My mom got really freaked out that he was dead or something so she made my dad take the door off by the hinges to get in there, and yep... just sleeping. So when the put the door back on my mom had my dad switch out the door handle for his bedroom with the one from the closet (no lock) so that he couldn't lock it any more. That lasted about 6 months before he went into their closet and switched them back one time when they weren't home haha.
@CorgiTales: I can totally relate. I had 98% in my English 12 class (the highest of anyone), but my teacher threatened to fail me because I had a 42% attendance rate! I didn't get failed in the end either.
Oh just thought of something else. Once when I was 5 and again when I was 9 I had two separate scary encounters with men trying to abduct me (must have been because I was a chatty little blonde?). When I was 9 the man tried to pull myself and my little cousin into a van....we got away, but because of this my mom was nuts about me getting abducted. I had a "secret" word that to this day only my mom, dad and I know. My mom would check and re-check all the doors and windows at night. I had to go to the bathroom with my dad at public places unitl I was 9 and even after that my mom would make my dad stand outside public washrooms directly outside the door until I was like 14. People must have thought my poor dad was a creeper. I also had to attend countless self-defence courses and my mom would always make me aware of meeting points and escape routes at new locations. Better safe than sorry I guess...it did get old by the time I was in my teens though!
My mom never kept Coke in the house. We could only have it when we went to a fast food restaurant. No gum either, but I think that's because she was afraid we'd get it in our hair.
@EvaBostonTerrier: Woah.
My dad is pretty much a jerk, so he would make up irrational rules at a drop of a hat. Let's see, my sister and I could never finish our homework if there were any sort of chores to do (mowing, dishes, vacuuming, etc). I couldn't join or partake in any after school activities if there were any chores; if I had a required band performance on the weekend, sometimes I couldn't go. Luckily, my dad worked 2nd shift so for the most part, as long as I got the chores done, then everything was fine and I didn't have to see him so I still did after school activities and was able to finish my homework on the week days (not on the weekends, though). I couldn't have a boyfriend or think about boys if I got a B or lower (yeah, my dad is screwed up)--I got yelled at once for having a B on a test for "thinking about boys too much." So everyone knows, I wasn't boy crazy and I was a very good student (4.0) so there wasn't a reason for his paranoia.
LOL This is great.
I wasn't allowed to watch Night Court, Three's Company or Married with Children because my parents thought that the shows portrayed blonde women in a bad light (I was a blonde). We couldn't watch tv before 5pm and were only allowed an hour or two (I can't remember which) a night.
Pop could only be consumed on Friday, Saturday and Sunday nights (or special occasions).
No screaming unless you were in pain or in trouble. To this day, I can't STAND it when little kids just scream and scream...I keep thinking something is wrong.
We had a pool and there was NO swimming for an hour after eating (good rule, but I hated it as a kid). Also, every time we had new kids over to swim in the pool my dad (a teacher and a former lifeguard) would say "Now, do I tell them the pool rules or do you?" We told our friends the rules...which were many...no running on the deck, no diving the shallow end, no jumping off the diving board while others were underneath, no screaming. It was less awful to just tell our friends ourselves.
I just thought of another one too! We weren't allowed to play with Ouiji boards because they're from the devil (that's what mom would say.) If we went to a birthday party where they were playing with one, we had to tell them we weren't allowed. lol
Haha, my mom went grocery shopping every other Monday (not sure why that day, but always on Monday.)
She would be one 6 pack of glass bottled soda, and we each got 2 (my sis, brother, and I) We could drink them whenever we wanted, but only got two over those two weeks.
Weird!
Once I hit high school, I drank soda like a fiend at school because we had vending machines. LOL. Soda rebellion!
@moderndaisy: Same thing here! No MTV allowed, even when I was home from college on breaks.
The really strange rule we had was you had to wear socks or shoes when you were downstairs in the main living areas. If you were barefoot you had to put 25 cents in the jar.
I wasn't allowed to listen to any pop or rock radio stations. I could only listen to the oldies stations until I was like 12 or 13. So instead of New Kids on the Block I listened to Elvis and The Beach Boys. I guess it's sort of like limiting TV shows (I also wasn't allowed to watch MTV or The Simpsons), but I think my parents took it a little too far. Once a cousin came to visit and talked me into letting her play her Sir Mix A Lot tape. As soon as my mom heard "Baby Got Back" from the next room, my tape player was confiscated for a week.
@mrs.peters.to.be We had a secret word too! We weren't supposed to go with anyone unless they told us the secret word. Each of my siblings had different ones. It only backfired once. My mum was in labor with my baby sister - both my brother and I were in elementary school - and our next door neighbor (who happened to teach at the high school) came to pick us up and take us to my grandparent's house. In the midst of everything the secret words were not passed on. You know how this went... We refused to get into the car (did I mention she was also a good family friend). We explained why to our Principal. They finally got in touch with my Dad at the hospital (pre cell phones people!) and he told us it was OK. I'm sure everyone was really annoyed at the mess we caused, but oh well we were just following directions!
@CorgiTales: the simpsons was banned in my parents house and i think still is. my mom hates that show.
my mom came up with a rule about television that i thought was pretty clever....my brother and i could only watch tv shows that we both agreed on (she knew that we agreed on NOTHING). it limited our tv viewing to american gladiators, yan can cook, and caprial's cafe (the latter two were cooking shows on PBS in the 80s).
there was no soda kept in our house before i was in high school (at which point my brother had already gone off to college). we could drink it out of the house but not in the house. my parents were kind of strict but i don't think many of their rules would be classified as weird...mostly the standard strict parent rules.
Oh man, these are crazy! My parents had bizarre rules too. I was required to answer the phone, "McDowell residence, [name] speaking, May I ask who is calling?" EVERY time. If I got caught answering the phone like a normal person I got grounded for a week. This was insanely embarassing during high school when boys would call :(
My mom also wouldn't let me keep anything in the shower. No shampoo, soap, anything. I had to keep in in the closet and bring it in and out of the shower each time. She is totally OCD about cleaning. Bizarre.
We had the weirdest rules when it came to TV too. We were each given like 20 poker chips (each kid had their own color, and there were 3 kids) and everytime we watched a 30 minute show each week we had to give away one of our chips. How ever many chips you had left at the end of the week resulted in how much allowance you got! Each chip equalled 25 cents. So If I only had 8 chips left I got $2 in allowance that week.
I hated that damn rule! I look back now and laugh and think WTF?! FH laughs too, he thinks my family is crazy because his was soooooo laid back.
Secret words are actually a pretty good idea! I like that.
My parents wouldn't let us outside to play after dinner for a half an hour to "rest our tummies". It was awful when you are 8 and your friends are standing at your door. We also couldn't leave our rooms on the weekends until our parents got up. My brother especially hated that rule, because my mom liked to sleep in and my dad was at work a lot, so that rule was just so my mom could sleep in peace. I didn't care because I had my toys, but my brother wanted to go out and cause mischief among the neighborhood and couldn't until 10 or 11 when my mom finally got up.
Is there anyone who was allowed to "Watch Married with Children"? It seems like this was everyone's rule when this conversation comes up with my group of friends.
My mom's main rules were no bra straps showing, no stomach showing. Drove me nuts at the time, but I am definitely implementing the same rules if I ever have a daughter.
Once I was in high school, I wasn't allowed to drive with any of my friends until they had taken a driving test with my dad. Mortifying!
My dad said that we weren't allowed to drink coffee until the second half of seventh grade. Why? That was his mom's rule when he was growing up! It always made me laugh, because I think it's silly.
My mom wouldn't let us (me, my sister and my brother) have video games that connected to the TV. We could only have hand held ones, like the GameBoy.
Also, she wouldn't let us have toy guns at all, ever (with the exception of water guns).
I don't think the last two are that weird though-- they kind of make sense.
@septcabride: Haha I wasn't allowed to drive with any of my high school friends. Period. Once I got caught driving around with my boyfriend... that got me grounded for a while. :-X
My parents were crazy strict, nothing weird really... they were just really overprotective. They had to know where I was at all times and if I was spending the night at a friend's house they would call the parents to make sure someone would be home and that I was really going there. I hated it as a teenager, but I totally get it now!
FWIW, it didn't really help.. I was constantly sneaking out without them knowing, but I was a rebel, what can I say?!
One more thing my parents did that I thought was totally insane at the time, but now I think was really clever - we never got an allowance in cash. At the end of each week, we entered our allowances as a deposit into a fake checking account (my parents gave my sister and I old check books and registers to use). If we wanted cash for something, we had to write my mom or dad and check and they would cash it. (Eventually they implemented an ATM system - because this continued until I went away to college!! and my parents weren't always around to play bank - where we could put the check in a petty cash box and take the cash.) All the money we got from my parents came from this system (no "hey, I am going to the movies, can I have $20"), so we had to plan ahead and save for big stuff like prom tickets. Annoying, but it taught me a lot about banking, saving, balancing a check book, and planning ahead from a really young age!
We weren't allowed to watch MTV, VH1, Comedy Central, the Simpsons, or Nickelodeon (yeah, I don't get that last one either--I think my parents didn't think Ren & Stimpy was appropriate). We also couldn't watch R-rated movies, or PG-13 movies until we actually were 13
My mom is also kind of crazy about her kitchen. No one is allowed to put anything directly on the counter--it has to be on a potholder, paper towel, or one of these cutting boards with rubber feet. Same goes for the refrigerator. Nothing is placed directly in the sink, it all goes in a bucket in the sink. I always thought this was crazy, but she has to do a lot less cleaning, and none of her stuff has scratches or stains, so maybe it wasn't such a bad idea after all!
Oh man, let's see:
-no soda, ever (unless we were at a picnic or something where that's all that was available - then my sister and I could split one can of soda)
-no gum, candy, or cookies without checking with mom first - and we had to check for every single piece. So it was "mom, can I have a cookie?" then "mom can I have another cookie?" And we almost never had that stuff in the house (mom didn't allow it) so this was when we were out at church potlucks and and out to dinner.
-no TV, ever.
-shoes and socks had to be on our feet in the morning when we started school (I was homeschooled). I used to get mad at people who would tell me that they were jealous that I got to "stay home in my pajamas all day." Little did they know...
-our room had to be cleaned for 30 mins/day
-10pm weeknight curfew, 12am weekend curfew when I was 21 and living with them while going to school (this was relaxed if I had to work later than 10)
-shoes had to have a strap across the foot; they couldn't be slip-ons
-no dating or talking to boys outside of a group situation
Lots of weird food "rules" like mom had to dish our plates up (and she would put GIANT amounts of food on them), but if we couldn't eat it all we'd get in trouble.
Despite how strict my parents were, we were allowed to have wine coolers when I was a teenager...so soda was bad, but wine coolers were ok. Go figure.
I'm glad to hear all parents are weird!! :) In my family, we weren't allowed to have soda or ketchup unless we were at a restaurant or it was a holiday. The big one was no playing in the house. If we wanted to play with our friends, we had to do it outside, unless it was raining. No shaved legs until middle school, and definately no tight and/or revealing clothing, like bra straps or midriff showing. We were allowed to watch Married with Children and The Simpsons, though. They were pretty lax about tv, since I had siblings quite a bit older than me.
Wow. Your parents had amazing foresight. You are probably so much better at managing money and budgeting than most people!
My mom took the "under 17" part of the R-rated movie warnings very, very literally. I remember we had a big fight one time because I wanted to see some action movie with my friends that was rated R. I was, like, 15 1/2, and she absolutely refused, because I wasn't 17. Hahaha!
I'm the oldest, so in general my parents were much, much stricter with me than my younger sister and brother. I would get punished for things like getting a B- or not doing my laundry quickly enough. I MAY still be a little bitter about the shit my brother got away with six years later, hahaha.
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