(Closed) What is up with Wedding Bee lately?

posted 6 years ago in Weddingbee
Post # 3
Member
5658 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

idk, there are always snarky people, but I still think the majority of the bees are nice!

PMSing? Really? lol

Post # 4
Member
2759 posts
Sugar bee

I haven’t noticed any sigificant change. Some people are more brusque online than others. *shrug* The Bee, overall, is one of the nicest places I’ve ever been on the Internet.

Post # 6
Member
5786 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2011

Meh, its been worse.

I’m a B the entire month, PMS has nothing to do with it 😉

Post # 7
Member
1880 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I’ve noticed.  I’ve also noticed that this site which is supposed to be FOR brides seems to be filled with people that don’t like brides very much.  The BM threads drive me absolutely CRAY CRAY!!!  Posters/brides will post about being disappointed in their BMs and like 100 bees come out to flame the OP and tell her that BMs don’t have to do sh*t.  WHY HAVE ANY THEN?!?!  LOL!  Just makes me nuts! 

Post # 8
Member
2608 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

What I’ve noticed in particular is some very repetative threads being started, and bees getting sick of their very friendly, wise, and well-thought out advise being tossed back in their faces.  The point that I keep coming back to, is that one shouldn’t ask for advice, particularely on an online forum, if you’re truly not interested in what someone else has to say.

That, and some personality clashes.  Pretty much unavoidable on the webtube.

Post # 10
Member
1735 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Maybe we synced all our periods because we spend so much time together and we all have PMS.  I don’t find any change ceratain topics get heated but thats to be expected.

Post # 11
Member
1043 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I’ve noticed this too.  I think problems arise when someone posts a question, and people start immediately judging the poster about the background of the question (instead of either answering it or ignoring it!).

I’m hopeful that all returns to it’s normal, sweet, positive environment soon.  🙂

Post # 12
Member
5658 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

I hear too many posters complain that people are being mean to them, when in reality no one is being mean, it’s just that no one is validating them.

Post # 13
Member
2651 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

 

If you can’t say anything nice… post a lolcat.  hahah

Post # 14
Member
1880 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@MissNoodles:  I agree that some of the advice given is well thought out and useful (just not what the poster may want to hear).  BUT, I also think that a lot of bees are quick to respond without carefully reading the OP.  This leads to defensiveness, hurt feelings, etc.

Post # 16
Member
10288 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

It comes in waves but it’s been MUCH worse. Certain topics get heated and that’s to be expected when you’re dealing with a bunch of women with varying opinions. Nothing wrong with that. I love a good debate every now and then. 

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