What is WRONG with me?!??!?!?!?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: What is WRONG with Nona99?
    She got a hold of some bad peanut butter cups : (9 votes)
    9 %
    She's suffering from a hormonal imbalance : (9 votes)
    9 %
    She's stirring up trouble because she just loves drama : (17 votes)
    17 %
    She can't help it if she's an amazing shopper : (68 votes)
    66 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    3199 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @Nona99:  ha! you’re just a good person. i have a friend like this. i see her updates on facebook and feel grief for the person that i lost, but she isn’t the person any more. sometimes i say nice things to her on facebook, then i’m like…why did i do that?

    you’re just kind-hearted. hopefully she’ll appreciate the gesture.

    Post # 4
    Member
    2061 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I think that was really big of you. When someone is a part of your life for so long, I think you develop an unconditional love because they become family….Maybe this will be an opening of flood gates, but in a good way! I also had a falling out last summer with a best friend of 20 years, and even though she was in the wrong, just recently I decided to reach out. Sometimes, it winds up not mattering who was right or wrong if you both decide to salvage the friendship. Good luck! Keep us updated with how it goes. I’d be tracking that package all day!! 😉 That was a really, really sweet gesture, Nona. 

    Post # 6
    Member
    2061 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    @Nona99:  Awwwww…you both love each other, you guys will work it out 🙂

    Post # 7
    Member
    3047 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @Nona99: Sounds like you’re suffering from having too big a heart – caring about people that might no longer be the person that you once loved. However, I guess her card might have stir some hope in you and BAM – diaper bag. Even if this does not lead to a reconciling, I still don’t think you should feel stupid. You gave a gift to a little baby that has nothing to do with all the drama of the past.

    But if it makes you feel better, I did something similar once… I had been with this guy for 2 years. One year into the relationship his oldest sister became pregnant and I decided to make an embroidered baby blanket for the baby. I spent a year working on that blanket and then we broke up like a week before the baptism (when I was going to give it to her)… Everyone told me to hold on to the blanket, but it felt wrong – it was for THAT baby, no other baby. So I gave it to her and I’ve never felt bad about it. My mum still sighs about it though when I do other crafts projects, saying that nothings was as pretty as that blanket that’s no longer in the family… Other people might think your move wasn’t the best, but I’m sure you feel in your heart it was the right one.

    Post # 8
    Member
    1931 posts
    Buzzing bee

    You’re a sweetheart. Don’t feel bad because you’re a good person, I wish I had friends like you. 

    Post # 11
    Member
    7997 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2013

    Maybe this little gesture will help the friendship get back on track. Throwing away 29 years isn’t easy.

    Just try to put it out of your mind. Whatever will be will be…

    Post # 12
    Member
    11772 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @Nona99:  Aww, you’re always such a good person! It fills me with hearts and bubbles and warm fuzzies. I definitely read this post thinking “Okay. What exactly do I have to do to ensure this kid turns out wise and kind and generous like HER!”

    Post # 13
    Member
    3047 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    @Nona99: Whatever you do, don’t show up at her place and try to wrestle the package away from the FedEx guy… I’m not sure bad peanut butter cups would hold up as a plausible excuse for that type of behavior. 🙂

    Post # 14
    Member
    3557 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @Nona99:  Ok, I want to see the monkeys. Link to this diaper bag please 🙂

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