(Closed) What is wrong with people?! (vent)

posted 5 years ago in African-American
Post # 3
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963 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

That sounds super frustrating. At that point it sounds like people know how many people are invited and they just choose to ignore it. So rude! Unfortunately this is pretty common and the only way to deal with it is to call each family directly and tell them the extra people aren’t invited.

Post # 4
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100 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

the only perk of people being THAT FREAKIN RUDE is that you should feel less bad (or not bad at all really) telling them they can’t come.

Post # 5
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83 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

You are not alone hon.  We invited 2 and got back an RSVP for 7.  Its my FI’s family and he had the honors of explaining to them why that was not an option.

Post # 7
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1668 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Deep breath.  You are not alone.  We didn’t get cross outs but we got subsititutions and other foolishness.  Just assume they mean no harm and they just don’t get it.  Some people are really clueless.  This is the tough part of the planning soon it will all be behind you. 

Post # 8
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75 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

My best friend said that her husband may not be able to come and that she’d come by herself UNLESS she brings someone else. EXCUSE ME, say what!!?? Not an option.

We’re having an intimate wedding (ONLY 50 people). We are only inviting immediate family and our VERY BEST friends. Why would she think it’s okay to invite some “random” person. I’m so irritated that I can’t even talk to her about it.

 

Rant over.

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