What is your first reaction to a girl wearing…

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: What's your immediate reaction?
    Positive reaction (she looks awesome, kudos to her, she deserves attention) : (76 votes)
    29 %
    Negative reaction (whoa lady put some clothes on, look an attention whore, raised eyebrow at her) : (189 votes)
    71 %
  • Post # 3
    328 posts
    Helper bee

    I worry less about is she has the “body to rock it” and more if she has the confidence to pull it off.

    Post # 4
    1400 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    It depends on what you mean by “public.” And how cute the clothes are 😛 But there’s a difference between the club and Walmart at 2pm.

    I have certain opinions on clothes… Bras are not shirts, and leggings are not pants. 

    Post # 7
    279 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2016 - Highfield House, Stanley, Tasmania

    I honestly don’t notice, unless it is really ridiculously revealing. For example, grocery shopping in a bikini top and ultra short shorts (as I have seen girls in my town do, it isn’t even a beach town) is a bit ridiculous and I would certainly raise my eyebrows. 

    Ultimately, what other people wear doesn’t bother me too much. You should add a different option for “I don’t care/other”

    Post # 8
    7929 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort

    It would depend on the place, the outfit, the attitude of the woman, etc. Also, sexy/revealing are relative terms.

    Post # 9
    6525 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @kmaemu:  im conservative when it comes to clothing so for me. Im not a fan of bodycon dress or ridiculous cutout dresses. So whether you have a nice body or not, keep somethings to the imagination

    Post # 10
    2516 posts
    Sugar bee

    @kmaemu:  It’s more about fit, I think. A revealing dress doesn’t bother me as much as a too-tight one does.

    ETA: There’s also a time and place for everything. Revealing clothes don’t have a place in my conservative workplace.

    Post # 12
    2355 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    If I see a woman walking around the grocery store looking like a hooker, I am going to assume she has low self-esteem.

    Post # 13
    2079 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    @kmaemu:  I don’t mind. To each their own. I don’t really care what others choose to wear. If she is fit and has a nice figure, good for her.

    No, if I’m confident enough to put something on and wear it in public, I’m not worried about what other people may think of me.

    Post # 14
    88 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    @kmaemu:  love this question! for me i think wearing revealing clothes does not equal sexy, but thats just my opinion. when i see girls with everything hanging out i always think ‘put some clothes on its cold out!’ only because i dress more on the conservative side 😛 but yeah its does depend on the place and the fit of the clothes for sure.

    Post # 16
    1737 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2014 - 13th ~ TN

    @kmaemu:  I didn’t vote because I think everyone has a different level of what they would consider too revealing, sexy, etc.

    If I see a woman who has a nice shape wearing something that is a little tight, low cut (but not almost showing nipple), a little short (but not showing butt) then I would probably not really think anything of it. It would also probably depend on age and if she had an entourage of kids who looked like little orphan Annie next to this mom.

    Now, if my kids are around and privates can almost be seen then I would definitely think she needed to cover herself.

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