Ladies and Gentleman I am curious to know what is taboo in the bedroom when you're married? Do you stop "experimenting" after you say I do?
Nothing is taboo that wasn't before (and it was always a short list).
Things become taboo if one or both partners aren't comfortable and the other party should be respectful of that wish. I don't think experimenting necessarily stops after you get married though.
I'm up for anything at lease once. Except for "what what, in the butt". Exit only
@risingsun: +1
I'll definitely try anything once, but I don't share!
@MissFireFlower: He is persistant on this. Every time he asks and I am like hell.no.point.blank. The "what what, in the butt cracked" me up though haha
@Tiggah: It really all depends on the couple and their comfort level. We watch porn, roleplay, have anal, etc. But for us, bringing someone else into the bedroom is off limits. But if other couples swing that way, and it works, so be it.
I think things should get even kinkier when you're married. Gotta keep the spice alive! But of course no third parties.
I agree with @MissFireFlower, no butt-sex for the Doilies. Hells to the nah. Sorry to be crude but shit goes out, not in. Now we have experimented a little with other things, but we have found that we are pretty straight vanilla and we are okay with that.
I voted no. The only thing that should be taboo is when one of the participants isn't consenting -- consenting adults can do whatever they like together.
I'll try anything once. Life's short and what if I end up liking it?
I wouldn't say something should become taboo by virtue of getting married. What was fair game before should be fair game afterwards as well. Generally speaking, I'm against anal, coprophilia, emetophilia and to an extent, golden showers. Basically anything to do with body wastes.
As long as both parties are on board, nothing is too taboo or extreme!
Between myself and my husband, we draw the line at anything involving bodily waste. Ew.
I want to continue to have an amazing sex life with my FI so I always plan on having a no judgment policy in our bedroom (or where ever we happen to be (; ) I always tell FI I want him to be open and honest with me about his fantasies or whatever, it keeps it fun. :)
I think most bees that say nothing is off limit don't understand how freaky you can really get. LOL. I've dated some "interesting" guys so I've had to set limits.
Bodily fluids and waste are off limits. Him wearing dresses, panties, bras, etc are off limits. Whips and knives are off limits. Facial masks (made out of leather with just eye clits and nose holes) are off-limit (I'm claustraphobic). Threesomes, with 2 women, are off limits (I would at least consider the other way, for him of course 
). Swinging is off limits. Hard core machinery is off limits. Choking me out is off limits.
In general most vanilla-type kinky stuff is fine. Luckily my hubby is pretty mainstream so none of the above has come up.
As long as it's just us, why not try it at least once?
Anything to do with bodily fluids (or solids) besides semen, saliva or vaginal secretions is off limits for us.
Also it can only involve us two. No third parties.
Everything else I'd try at least once.
ETA: This also has nothing to do with us being married. It's just our personal preferrences.
There is very little that is off limits in our bedroom.
I think most bees that say nothing is off limit don't understand how freaky you can really get. LOL. I've dated some "interesting" guys so I've had to set limits.
Bodily fluids are off limits. Him wearing dresses, panties, bras, etc are off limits. Whips and knives are off limits. Facial masks (made out of leather with just eye clits and nose holes) are off-limit (I'm claustraphobic). Threesomes, with 2 women, are off limits (I would at least consider the other way, for him of course ). Swinging is off limits. Hard core machinery is off limits. Choking me out is off limits.
haha! That's great. Out of all out those things, bodily fluids would be the only thing on my "Hell.No." list. As in scat play (feces) or water sports (urine), no thanks. Cum shots and such, fine. Can one talk about cum shots on the Bee? XD
@DrTeeth: LOL. You did so I guess you can. 
I totall agree about the bodily fluids. I think saying "nothing" is off limits is just not true for most people but they don't know what they don't know. Saying "anything" can get you into a lot of trouble.
I read somewhere "Don't be so open-minded that your brain falls out." LOL. I agree. I've learned I have boundaries and I'm thankful for them.
Edited: To hide my more adventurous youth. 
@Tiggah: I am not sure that once we marry anything will become taboo that isn't already.
I don't think either of us is into the BDSM or whatever it's called. Whips and chains lol.
We will NEVER allow a third party into the bedroom. That's just inviting disaster IMO.
@cerenatee: OMG that table sounds so creepy... wtf. And blood?! You have dated some interesting fellows hahaha.
Nothing is taboo just because we're married. We have our limits and those won't change, but within them there's still plenty of fun stuff to do!
I'm supposed to get married this May and I'm soooooo excited!
I won't lie, we're a pretty kinky and daring pair. I'm so excited to see where things go (or don't go) after we get married and have a more private space/time alone.
I kinda ruin sex for my poor husband dining want Tom try much and can't with a lot because if a medical condition :( I feel so bad we pray having a baby work help with the medical condition but I'm still pretty reserved
@MissFireFlower: BAHAHAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHA I got a real LOL outta that comment, for some odd reason thats my go to saying in regaurd to anything dealing with butts...haha
I said "it depends" because while I'm open to expiriment, there are some things that neither of us are interested in now - so why would we be then? I think anything with another person and a few toys are no gos. No thank youuu.
LOL, we didn't have sex before we were married, so we obviously didn't stop experimenting afterwards. And nothing's off limits to us except public play and additional participants. We'll pretty much try everything else and the stuff we have tried? Let's just say it would shock people who knew us.
I will try anything as long as its only the 2 of us ( as in no additional participants). healthy marriage does not include a 3rd person in my case
For me nothing is taboo unless he were to want another person with us. In fact i'mmore willing to experiment than he is.
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