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What is YOUR idea of the perfect bachelor party for your FI?

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    I know some people are uncomfortable with B-parties, but if you could throw one for your FI (or have his BM do it for you) what would you do for him?

    For my FI I'd get him down on pit row for a NASCAR race, then he'd go out with the boys for some crazy drinking and dancing at a country bar.  The night would culminate with a breakfast at Denny's with pancakes and LOTS of coffee!

     
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    mrbee    March 5, 2005   New York City, New York

    Mighty - I noticed there are no girls involved in your perfect bachelor party... :-)

     
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    spaniel    March 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    It would involve either a sporting event or gambling in Vegas (FI loves basketball and craps), and it wouldn't involve strippers. :) I actually wouldn't be upset if his friends took him to a strip club (or, ew, hired strippers at a private party) because I trust him (and I know he'd be too grossed out by strippers to do anything I'd disapprove of! ;), but I don't actually think he'd enjoy it that much.

    I'm actually encouraging a weekend with the guys in Vegas... that way I don't have to go again for at least a year ;).

     
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    Samisomsam    March 13, 2010   Longview, WA

    I really can't see FI getting a stripper so I think FI's bachelor party will consist of drinking and playing darts and Warhammer (glorified army men) all night. Maybe I'm wrong, but he's not a stripper kind of guy.

     
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    Mr. Bee...you're incredibly astute!  No, there are no women involved, unless FI is trying to hook his Best Man up with someone...FI doesn't like strippers or anything like that, but I know he loves NASCAR.  I figure a B-party should be your last selfish act, and for him, that would be NASCAR (since I don't love it).  Hmm...the last selfish act...perhaps that's why men used to always go to strip clubs?

     
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    jezzybell    10/10/2009   San Diego

    It would definitely be a weekend out in the desert, boozing it up, riding day and night and they would probably call out some strippers.  Though in the desert, I'm sure they wouldn't have trouble finding any!!! 

    I'm jealous!!

     
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    eloping    May 23, 2010  

    it would be to fly FI and a few of his diving friends somewhere (brisbane, lady elliot, vanuatu) for a week so they can do get alot of scuba dives in

    knowing my FI there will be very little alchohol, no late nights and lots of eating and diving... and no strippers, (which is what his b-party did have) as i know he would prefer the diving over a 3 naked chicks wresting in whipped cream anyday (hes a scuba tragic)

     

     

     
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    lepetitlapin    August 8th 2009   Acworth

    i hope the boys take him out and get him straight up silly and (are you ready for this?) I hope they get him strippers! My FI is very shy and quiet and i have always been the rowdier of the two of us. I think it would be hilarious for him to have a crazy night on the town, especially knowing how silly he would think the whole thing was.

     
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    mowi322    October 3, 2009   flagstaff, az

    I would say a weekend out on private land, camping, drinking, and shooting air soft guns BUT he just did that for another friend's bachelor party! So now it would be going to Vegas, drinking, smoking (because I NEVER let him smoke), & going to a strip club. It's not what I would want him to do, but I know that's what he's envisioning. Also, it seems a lot less dangerous than drunken, air soft gun shooting in the middle of nowhere!

     
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    KateMW    8.30.03   Birmingham

    The perfect party for my DH would be whatever he wanted... :) I think he would like a weekend trip to the beach probably with lots of drinking.

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    hamster    May 30, 2010  

    I think my FH would like a golf weekend with his buddies, some beer and maybe a good steak dinner. Yum. What is YOUR idea of the perfect bachelor party for your FI? :  wedding Icon Biggrin

     
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    penguin    June 7, 2008   Berkeley, Ca

    Vegas... I love Vegas more than I should! As long as he doesn't spend money on drinks for other chicks, I'd be coo with whatever! Fly in on Friday, have a nice steak dinner, gambling all night, Champagne brunch in the morning, watch some sports, drink by the pool, and then maybe a brazillian steakhouse saturday night! I suppose that would be the itenerary I'd set for them!

    I'd say a golfing weekend but lots of sun+booze is really bad on my husband, because he is so white he is clear.

     
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    monalisa670    August 2009   Boston

    My fiance is going to Maine with 18 of his friends and I think it's perfect! They're doing canooing, drinking, camping, cookout- the whole deal. I didn't even come up with the idea, or have any part in it, but I'm SO glad that's what they're doing! I've always kinda worried a little about what he would do, but I am A-OK with this plan! In fact it sounds like so much fun I kinda wish I could come, haha. 

     
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    august15bride    August 15, 2009   St. Petersburg, FL

    It would include great seats at a sporting event - maybe at Madison Square Gardens? My fiance is a huge sports fan. It would include lots of beer - Natty Light is his favorite. :) And definitely a steak dinner in there somewhere! No strippers. :)

     
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    lisalulu    September 19, 2009   Santa Barbara,CA

    My FI is a surfer. He's travelled the world in search of the perfect wave. All of his groomsment but him are surfers so they will rent a house in an ideal location and surf, eat, and drink beer.

    I hope he gets his bachelor weekend. A lot of the guys are having a hard time getting away. In his fantasy he was a Mussel Shoals in Ventura, CA. But they may do Santa Cruz because it's more convienient. 

    I'm the one having the wild hollywood weekend at the London hotel. I'm the wild child!

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    I think my guy would like to hang out with Mighty Sapphire's FI and do that kind of stuff!  Maybe take some of the guys out in his jeep and go off-road too. 

    He doesn't need to have a stripper.  He could get a private dance at home...AFTER his bachelor party with me!!! (geez that was a bit risque for me huh?) 

     
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    august15bride    August 15, 2009   St. Petersburg, FL

    Haha, yes Bellenga!!!! :)

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    Chantellamus    October 15, 2009  

    hmmm maybe golf in the morning with the guys, then maybe a bit of ice hockey, then a pub crawl? oh and prpbably a stripper provided by MY dad (yeah dont ask)

    oh wait....that IS what he is doing!!! ha ha, I think it will be the best day for him!

     

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