Post # 1
We are all so gushy in love and its adorable but I am so curious what your SO’s biggest flaw is??
I would say my Fiance biggest flaw is his inability to have a disagreement.
He is passive aggressive. lucky me lol & his first wife is as well. They just co-existed and almost never faught until they built up enough resentment for each other they just walked away because love had died!! : ( ~ good for me!! :>
I must say he is coming around and is much better. I am a firey girl – which can be good and bad! but he is learning that an arguement isnt the end of a relationship!!
Post # 3
His big flaw is how hard he is on himself. He cuts himself no slack at all.
Post # 4
I have to pick just one?! Kidding, lol
FI’s biggest flaw is probably that he is a TOTAL workaholic! He owns his own business, so he will always have to work a lot more than the typical 9-5, but I can’t tell you how many times I’ve had to take his phone or laptop and put them in the other room because he’ll announce he’s done for the day….and then keep checking them! I know he does it to give us a great life, so it’s hard to be too upset, and he IS getting much better, but sometimes I (selfishly) wish he just had a 9-5 job.
Post # 5
My FI’s biggest flaw is his being overly subbordinate. He is getting much better but there was a time that Fiance would not stand up for our relationship at all.
Post # 6
He’s a worrywart. I think he needs anti-anxiety medication. Drives me crazy sometimes.
Post # 7
Darling Husband will shut down if I lash out. He’s getting much better at it though, and I’m also trying to lash out less 🙂
Post # 8
My husband bites his nails ughhhh gets on my nerves. LOL it’s so minor but it bothers me : )
Post # 9
The only one that comes to mind is that he is a big food smacker. Its my worst pet peeeeeve I cannot stand when someone smacks with food. But over the past five years I have learned to live with it & now cannot live without it! 🙂
Post # 10
He’s too relaxed about everything. Sometimes a bit of stress could be good.
Post # 11
Darling Husband is a picky eater. He’s getting better!
Post # 12
He’s kind of impatient with customer service workers if things take a little longer than he wants, which makes me cringe because we both work customer service. He’s never rude but for example, when we bought our wedding bands, the sales people who trying to get the rings ordered had problems with the computer so it was taking a really long time. He wanted to just get up and leave without telling them anything. I told him we already waited this long and went through all this trouble to find these rings and I didn’t want to start over so just wait a little longer. Then the lady said they needed to wait for a call back so we agreed to come back in an hour or so. Fiance waited 20 minutes, called back, and upon hearing that they weren’t ready, tried to tell the lady that it was getting late and we’d be back next week.
I told him it wasn’t right. I knew everything was taking a really long time but it wasn’t their fault and they were working hard trying to get things together for US including a discount we shouldn’t have gotten, when they could’ve been doing normal shop work instead. Also we agreed to give them an hour and he didn’t even give them half of that. We both know what it’s like to go out of our ways to do something for a customer only to have them tell us “forget it” at the last minute.
So I brought him back, and the lady laughed and said “I didn’t say anything on the phone but I knew you’d be back! I said ‘Harley’s got this!'” Not only did we get the rings but they were ready within 4 days when we were supposed to have to wait a month. I told him patience is a virtue 🙂
Sorry that was so long, it just really stuck out in my head, i guess lol
Post # 13
My SO has an issue with keeping the twist tie on the loaf of bread. I will find the twist tie left on the kitchen table, on the floor, and sometimes right next to the loaf, but never actually being used to keep the loaf shut. It is the smallest thing, and we usually just joke about it when it happens (but it really does drive me CRAZY!)
Post # 14
He doesn’t take care of his health.
Post # 15
He is incredibly forgetful, even the important things. I hate having to remember EVERYTHING!
Post # 16
He has a hard time dealing with stress.