Post # 1
Ok, so we all love our SO’s more than comprehension…but they all do some pretty annoying stuff right??? Im just curious to see what those things are LOL. Keep in mind, this isnt ‘man bashing’ or attacking of any kind, just a fun post where we can get it alllll out!
ok i will start.
When he comes home from work he will take everything off down to his undies …right at the front door!!! I dont understand this concept. Just get totally naked and then leave your nasty work clothes right in the door way for people to look at?? its weird.
His farting. I know, everyone farts…but im not talking just an innocent fart in the privacy of your own home kinda fart…im talking, LIFT up the leg, squeeze it out and then proceed to waft it to your face kinda fart. It absolutly gets me sooooo riled up. I dont know WHY he does this or WHY he thinks its funny…but its just gross.
Or..ohh, this one gets me too. When im cooking or baking something, he always has to put in his 2 cents. “maybe you should do it like this” “are you going to chop those” “maybe those should be the same size” and im like ” HONEY!! i have made this 10 thousand times!! i know what im doing! and if you wernt here lurking around behing my shoulder, you would just eat it and never know the wiser!!” gah that bugs me..
Ahhh, god knows i love him with all my heart, but he does get on my nerves.
Post # 3
I get annoyed when my FI drives and doesn’t follow the rules of who has the right of way. He constantly stops for cars in the parking lot to let them back out of their parking spot, or will wave another car to go before him at a 4-way stop even though it’s his turn to go. I tell him all the time that all that does is cause accidents! Just follow the rules and there won’t be any damn confusion!
Oh, and he never admits to any faults. Even the stupidest little things, like the fact that he has a horrible memory. I don’t understand why he can’t just own up to things like that.
Post # 4
he is extremely impatient!!! if he is doing something, he can take as long as he wants, but if i am getting ready to go out and taking my time he whines and tells me i’m too slow. thats just one example… hes impatient with everything and everyone!!!!! its so annoying. he recognizes it and tries to work on it but its tough for him!
also he doesn’t put his clothes in any drawers.. he lives out of laundry baskets!!! its incredibly annoying. i tell him when we get our new apartment and have $ to buy new dressers he is using them!! i can’t stand the back room is just his “clothes-on-the-floor-and-in-laundry-baskets” room!!!
Post # 5
leaves his socks everywhere. I swear, just when I think I have them all put in the laundry hamper I find another pair hiding in a corner, or behind a door..
He’s also very very messy — as in, when he’s done with something it gets left there for an eternity; paperwork, dishes, clothes etc– it’s like living with a teeneager and it drives me nuts!
Post # 6
He does the same thing your SO does in the kitchen. he goes over and adds his 2 cents or tries to help. I am sorry but I AM in the KITCHEn get out. if i need you i will ask.
another thing he does that i cant stand is doesnt put up his shoes right away or his belt. he just leaves it there on the floor for days i dont mess with it because i want him to see that we dont have a maid it wont just magically get put up! he has to be a big boy and do it himself!
Post # 7
@missmouse- your FI sounds like me messy-wise … My FI is like my mom in that regard!
Post # 8
TOTALLY with you on the messy thing. Mine too. I ask him a zillion times, when you wash your face, its not a noxema commercial, you dont need to splash your face with water from 10 feet away. Do you think he listens??? Nope! next day i use the washroom and what do you know, water all over the sink counter, splashing on the mirror, dripping down the cabinets….doesnt get it.
Post # 9
@kristij I completely understand the farting thing, I hate it and I don’t know get why it’s so funny for them.
FH can’t seem to care of things. He seems to think everything is disposable or something I don’t know. He manages to wreck stuff and his car is a wreck because of it. Otherthen that its just a small things that will get on my nerves depending on my mood.
Post # 10
I can not watch FI clean the kitchen. He drips water all over the floors while loading the dishwasher and the counter becomes a pond of water while he’s handwashing the big stuff. I really am very grateful that I have a FI who does his share of cleaning in the kitchen, I just can’t watch him while he does it!
He always tries to have the last word! We’re both pretty stubborn, so by the end of a disagreement we’re not really disagreeing about the issue at hand, but at who gets the last word.
He speaks really loudly. Totally not his fault, he’s hard of hearing in one ear so he doesn’t realize how loud he can be, but sometimes it’s like “I love to hear your thoughts, honey, but the people on the other side of the store don’t need to hear about how tight your underwear are.”
Post # 11
He leaves empty Coke cans all over the house! And he’s a horrible backseat driver!
Post # 12
Instead of hanging his clothes back up, when he gets home from anywhere and strips down to get comfy .. he leaves his clothes .. on the loveseat , hanging from kitchen table chair, or on the floor next to his side of the bed..
why is it sooo hard to grab a hanger and hang it where it belongs? Just seems like double work to me!
Post # 13
He chatters his teeth sometimes. I don’t know if it’s involuntary. But when he does it (it sounds creepy!), I go, “what are you doing?!” and he goes “i want to eat you” and then i laugh. But the random clicking of his jaw/teeth annoy me and weird me out. Oh, he also chews the skin around his thumbs and nails really really bad.
Post # 14
My FI, I love him with all my heart, but he sucks in is spaghetti & makes a slurping noice while doing it……..UGH. It is really annoying. I rarely fix spaghetti because of it & I will never go to an Italian restaurant with him…….
Post # 15
Not all the time – but if he’s super hungry or in a rush, FI will make what I refer to as “eating noises.”
I haaaaaaaate them. It’s all I can do not to tell him he needs to CHEW before swallowing or gently point out that the steak on his plate is already dead – it’s not going anywhere.
Post # 16
-Leaves his dirty clothes EVERYWHERE. Bedroom floor, bathroom floor, there was a pile in the dining room (???) the other day.
-Asks a million questions about the movie while we’re watching it. Usually, it’s my first time seeing it, so how the heck would I know? He also asks me questions about TV shows I’ve never seen and expects me to know the answer because I read gossip blogs.