What kind of ring is appropriate for an anniversary?

posted 1 year ago in Rings
  • poll: What ring is appropriate for an anniversary if you never had a ring?
    A bridal set (solitaire/halo with matching band) : (42 votes)
    58 %
    A three stone ring : (10 votes)
    14 %
    A band with diamonds : (11 votes)
    15 %
    Other : (9 votes)
    13 %
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    2560 posts
    Sugar bee

    I would say there is no etiquette here! You should get whatever you want!! You deserve it! …and those 4 years do not make you old, silly!

    26 posts

    As another old married lady (LOL – 6 years) I say go with the ring that makes you happy, you love pear halo so get it. Remember everybody’s (who stays married) engagement ring becomes an old married lady’s ring. :)


    10364 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper

    I think you should get whatever you want!

    4459 posts
    Honey bee

    My mom just got engaged and originally she wanted something super out of the box, but she ended up going with a classic three stone ring. I don’t think you’ll regret it if you go for what’s in your heart. (No etiquette, by the way!)

    489 posts
    Helper bee

    If you never had an engagement ring proper, then I say it’s about time! Get a set, get that pear halo with a matching band and rock it if it will make you happy! :)

    2653 posts
    Sugar bee

    I say get whatever makes your heart sing! There are no rules, so get what it is you love.

    490 posts
    Helper bee

    My MIL (a very classy, traditional, upper class lady) got her “engagement” ring on their 25th wedding anniversary. Before that she just wore a band.

    If 25 years ain’t too many for an e-ring, 4 years sure as heck aren’t either! So when will you be posting photos of your pear?

    4458 posts
    Honey bee

    Girl we didn’t have much money either with 2 small kids 15 years ago and hubby just doubled the size of my center stone for our 15th anniversary! You can do whatever you want and enjoy every second of it! And don’t forget to post pics lol

    439 posts
    Helper bee


    Whatever style you like!  I hate how jewelry stores label rings as engagement, anniversary, right hand, etc.  If I like the way a ring looks I’ll get it for whatever occasion (and finger) I damn well please.

    4511 posts
    Honey bee

    I agree you should get whatever you’ve been yearning for. If it were me, I’d go big and splurge on a engagement-y type ring this time, then add to the ring for future anniversaries. Smile

    2911 posts
    Sugar bee

    Anything you want! Get the set if that’s what makes you happy!

    8506 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    I voted for a three-stone. Those are meant to symbolize your past, present, and future. So I think that fits well!

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    To choose or let him choose?

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