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What little details are exclusive to wedding boards? (tears of joy,door hangers)

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    Jeannine @ Small Chic    June 1, 2012   Virginia

    I just checked in with my month board on another site and people were talkinga bout "tears of joy" packets.  I realized that I had never heard of such things before joining that site.  The same goes with door hangers (hangers for hotels that say "Do not disturb, we are getting ready for ____ & ___'s wedding"). 

    Just for fun, I'm wondering what details or projects you wouldn't have known about if you hadn't read about them on the wedding message boards.

     

    I guess I've started the list...

    • tears of joy packets
    • door hangers for guest hotel rooms
    • personalized hangers (which I LOVE!)
     
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    ohheavenlyday    August 20, 2011   Savannah, Georgia

    "I Do" stickers on the soles of the bride's shoes. And also Save the Dates. I've only gotten one ever, and I was surprised when I got that one because nobody else had ever sent me one for their wedding before. I don't think they're done a lot where I'm from, but wedding boards have you thinking everyone does them! (I didn't do them either.)

     

     
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    JeniRae    May 2, 2009   Pittsburgh

    [yay!] flags?

     
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    Jeannine @ Small Chic    June 1, 2012   Virginia

    That reminds me...the sticks with the ribbons on the end.  I never saw those before.

     
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    missmidcentury    September 2011   Midwest

    I must admit that many of the small town/rural weddings in the midwest, or atleast my area, are less likely to have many of the trendy extras found in other areas, so a LOT of things on this blog I'm seeing for the first time after having been to a few weddings.

    -save the dates

    -(yay) flags / ribbon wands

    -ampersand bride/groom chair signs

    -typewriter guestbook

    -i do bride shoe stickers

    really a lot of other things too that i just can't think of right now...

     
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    mrstj2b    April 21, 2012  

    Definitely personalized bridesmaid and bride hangers. I never heard of that until reading stuff on the bee. I got my inspiration from a fellow bee, and I LOVE how they turned out! Everyone is going to be impressed because none of my girls have heard of that idea until I told them!

    What little details are exclusive to wedding boards? (tears of joy,door hangers) :  wedding Hangers1 2

     
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    Tswife4ever    May 28, 2011   California

    -Save the Dates

    -Custom card Boxes

    - I do shoe stickers

    -Flags/Ribbon Wands

    -Fake flower weddings (nothing against them, I just didn't know people did that and I think its awesome!)

    -Button Bouquets/ Brooch Bouquets (both very cool)

    -Programs

    -OOT bags

     
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    YSQueen    October 9, 2011   Atlanta

    Had I not joined a wedding board, I wouldn't have known about:

    • Save the dates
    • Streamers
    • Send off sparklers
    • DIY anything
    • OOT baskets
    • Bathroom baskets
    • Tears of Joy packets
    • Programs other than a folded sheet of paper
    • Card boxes
    • Place cards, Escort cards, Seating Chart
    • Cupcakes instead of wedding cake

    That's all I can think of right now.

     
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    Bostongrl25    December 2017  

    Everything that the PP's have said! haha.

    What are yay flags??

     

     
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    YSQueen    October 9, 2011   Atlanta

    @Bostongrl25:

    What little details are exclusive to wedding boards? (tears of joy,door hangers) :  wedding IMG 5880 500x375

     
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    rosworms    October 10, 2012   Sea Breeze Point in Disney World

    @YSQueen: oooh... i did not know what yay flags were until about five seconds ago... and now i must have them.

     
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    napabridekelsey    August 13, 2011   Live in Corvallis, OR/Wedding in Napa, CA

    Oh man. So many things. But projects, specifically, I wouldn't know about:

    - Personalized hangers

    - The different favor ideas out there

    - I Do stickers on shoes

    - Faux flower arrangements/bouquets (which are gorgeous, btw!)

    - Special BM gifts/Parent gifts

     

    I think that's all for projects. When it comes to planning , the Bee has helped me with almost everything.

     
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    Mrs. Fireworks    July 21, 2012   Chicago

    - Card Boxes

    - Jumping the Broom

    - I Spy game for the reception

    - Custom dresses from China

     
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    YSQueen    October 9, 2011   Atlanta

    @rosworms: Just google "yay flags". There are plenty of examples.

     
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    UK Bride    November 26, 2011  

    Um.... what in the world is a "tears of joy" packet? That's one I have yet to encounter!

     
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    sarahbabs    September 8, 2012   NYC, wedding in the Hudson Valley

    I didn't know about Yay flags until just now either!  Love it, and adding to the idea list now :)

     
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    Jeannine @ Small Chic    June 1, 2012   Virginia

    @UK Bride: From what I gather, this is really big on The Knot's website.  People decorate little packages of tissues and label them "for your tears of joy."

    I don't think we'll have many criers in our wedding, so the project never appealed to me.

     
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    heather5743    March 10, 2012  

    @UK Bride: 

    Tears of joy packets - Just tissues in small glassine envelopes

    What little details are exclusive to wedding boards? (tears of joy,door hangers) :  wedding Tears Of Joy Finished

    What little details are exclusive to wedding boards? (tears of joy,door hangers) :  wedding Tissues Someone Made

     
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    heather5743    March 10, 2012  

    Hangers, YAY Flags, bunting (sad, I know! LOL), ribbon wands, bathroom baskets, mustaches on a stick, etc.

    I really didn't know much until I joined the 'Bee!

    What's jumping the broom?  I've seen it mentioned, but I don't know what it is.  Someone explain, please!

     
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    Melini    April 2, 2011   Northern CA

    When I was planning, I consumed pretty much all wedding media that I could find.  A lot of these details find their way into blogs, magazines, tv shows, and commercial sites (i.e. etsy), so it's hard for me to say where I saw them first.  There aren't too many details that someone isn't selling on etsy at this point.

    One of the things that I get from the weddingbee is what girls are actually doing and the choices that they are actually making as opposed to the magazine/professional stylist with a huge budget version of weddings.  Also, plus sized, non-white, older, and tatooed brides are pretty much missing from the magazines.

     
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    Jeannine @ Small Chic    June 1, 2012   Virginia

    @heather5743: I've only seen jumping the broom at African American weddings, but it's a custom in some other cultures, too!

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jumping_the_broom

     
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    PurpleUnicorn    April 19, 2011  

    i would not thought of blowing bubbles during the recessional, making menu cards, i also did not know about the wine box ceremony which was a hit at my wedding.

     
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    sarahbabs    September 8, 2012   NYC, wedding in the Hudson Valley

    Whats a wine box ceremony?

     
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    Jeannine @ Small Chic    June 1, 2012   Virginia

    @sarahbabs:The couple writes letters to themselves (or each other) about their relationship and marriage. The couple seals the letters in a box with a bottle of wine during the ceremony. Some say that the box is opened on a major anniversary, but I've also heard that it is opened if they ever go through a rough patch.

    What little details are exclusive to wedding boards? (tears of joy,door hangers) :  wedding Winebox4

    What little details are exclusive to wedding boards? (tears of joy,door hangers) :  wedding Winebox2

    What little details are exclusive to wedding boards? (tears of joy,door hangers) :  wedding Winebox3

     

     

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