(Closed) What motivates you to have the perfect wedding? (Poll)

posted 5 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll:
    What you've been dreaming of since you were a girl : (5 votes)
    11 %
    Want to be the envy of your friends & family : (6 votes)
    13 %
    You want to celebrate your love : (25 votes)
    56 %
    You feel like it's your time to shine : (9 votes)
    20 %
  • Post # 3
    2966 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    @brendaparisbride:  Can there be an option for “what is a perfect wedding?”? Or at least “other”. 

    Post # 5
    4439 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

    @brendaparisbride:  Agree with PP about the “other” option.


    Every wedding I’ve been to I’ve had a complaint about — food, venue, pace of the occassion, etc. so I wanted to make mine at the very least enjoyable for my guests.  I didn’t aim for perfection because that just sets you up to hate your wedding day as something is sure to not go perfectly as planned.

    Post # 7
    1362 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

    I voted you feel like its your time to shine….. But its not really for me, its for my Fiance. He is the most amazing person I have ever met and he is super giving and amazing and will plan full out parties for his friends, he doesnt expect anything in return and honestly most times he doesnt get it but he is fine with that because he says his friends make up for it in other ways, which they do I suppose. He deserves a day where he is the center of attention (along with me of course but I cant do anything about that one!). Where everyone who he loves is reunited for him, to celebrate how happy he is and his future life. The decorations and such are taking a back stage for us because of this, we care about the food, the music, the bar and the entertainment. We want everyone to remember that they had a blast, that is the most important thing because it is a celebration! I dont care too much about the rest as long as we get married!!!! And making sure our guests have a good time and we are married would make my wedding perfect no matter what else happens.


    Post # 9
    1448 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I think it depends on what definition of “perfect” you are using, and I think the stress of trying to get any big event “perfect” is going to create a situation that is ripe for stress and unhappiness – not good ingredients to add in celebrating a nascent marriage.

    Post # 10
    527 posts
    Busy bee

    There is no such thing as “the perfect wedding.”

    Post # 11
    551 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @brendaparisbride:  To host an amazing party for the people we love!

    Post # 14
    7312 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

    None of the above. I’m a perfectionest. I demand it from myself. And I love throwing great parties.

    Post # 15
    11172 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper

    I want and expect perfection and so for my wedding there was no question. I am a perfectionist.

    I suppose the definition of perfection is in the eye of the beholder so for me I wanted a “perfect” wedding that met all my hopes and dreams and fancies that came long. Thankfully we were able to afford the price of perfection….because it is steep!

    Post # 16
    739 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    My wedding will not be perfect. But it will be wonderful because no matter what happens or goes wrong that day, Fiance and I will be married by days end and that is truly all that matters. 

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