(Closed) What on earth am I supposed to do???

posted 7 years ago in Toledo, Ohio
Post # 3
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1641 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

How old are these girls? They sound like children.

If they can’t put aside differences for one day, for your benefit, you’re better off without them and their drama!

Your MOH needs to grow up.

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Maybe the MOH is feeling you’re not on her “side” after these altercations with the BM. like you’re not being loyal, even though you have no idea what happened?

If you two have been friends, she needs to come clean about what’s really going on. 

It really is too bad this is putting unnecessary stress on you! 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I agree, your MOH needs to grow up. Call or e-mail her one more time and state you can no longer wait to make the necessary arrangements and that you do not hear from her in ___ amount of time, you must regretfully assume she no longer wishes to participate. You can not put your wedding on hold for this BS.

Post # 6
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379 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

What are they fighting about?  Something must have happened.

Post # 7
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103 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I agree with every person here. They must be children in 30 year olds bodies. You quite frankly can and do a better job with out them then with them and there  not getting along with each other and what not. Birdie love had said it well too, the MOH is  loyal and felt like you have not done your part in digging in deep into this matter by demand =ing some answeres and stat at that. you dont need to be stressed like this, they need to fess up BIG time on what on earth is going on with them two, whats been said why is there anger at things said and done. your bridesmaid though for sure should have been put-in line- for sure DURING the  trip. I am wondering why you havent stood up and gotten a hold on them. I would have been raising my voice if that was me in vegas  b/c I am honest and  a trip to vegas should not be ruined over some BS kindergarten stuff. Regaarding the time line, I actually had to do the same thing with the time line thing to my ex bridesmaids.. they never returned my phone calls or even showed interest so why bother? I told her if I diont hear from you soon about anything then I dont really need you. She wondered why and its like I dont have time to go back and forth with you just to contack you when I need you to answere your phone…  there loss and now stress free. I would invest in your MOH friendship though, its a long time and beofre giving a time line dig deep of this mystery matter and ask some serious questions and demand answeres from the both. Make sure one of them arent fibbing on the situation to avoid blame!

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@loopdiloo: Did I just read your wedding day right? 2010? or was that a typo? If so I just gave advise on your situation that has been  over a year ago, oops I didnt catch that if it is the right date! Maybe your so stressed out you made a typo, is my guess if it is then ok but if it isnt then ignore my answere lol

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