What should i do about my mother

posted 3 years ago in Family
  • poll: What should i do about my mother ?
    Don't talk to her and dont take any apologies from her : (14 votes)
    70 %
    Patch things up with her : (1 votes)
    5 %
    Wait before she apologizes first : (5 votes)
    25 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    3598 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    Wait, did your fiance actually buy alcohol for your underaged sister?

    Post # 6
    Member
    96 posts
    Worker bee

    I realize there are two sides to every story, but as a mother, I am appalled that any mom for whatever reason would do anything even slightly close to this.  Then again, I grew up with an emotionally and physically abusive mother, so I shouldn’t be so suprised.

     

    I would not continue a relationship with her.  She is toxic and abusive.  Live your life and raise your daughter in a healthy environment.  

    And God bless you.

    Post # 7
    Member
    3420 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    You realize you can go to jail for giving alcohol to someone that is underage? It doesn’t matter of it is “common” or not it is illegal. Your mother shouldn’t be treating you how she is but she has a right to be angry for your FI giving your sister alcohol. 

    Post # 8
    Member
    7410 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    @isabelle_86:  Then I can see why your mother would be mad. Just because everyone does it doesn’t make it right. In my country if you buy alcohol for a someone under the drinking age you can go to jail. Im sorry but both you and your FI are not setting good examples as parents so I can kind of see where your mother is coming from.

    Post # 11
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    3420 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2015

    @isabelle_86:  it’s good that she didn’t press charges, but even your mom could be charged. Parents are not an exception to the law. If I were you I’d cut ties with her for a while. 

    Post # 12
    Member
    7410 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    @isabelle_86:  I’m going to be blunt. It sounds like everyone involved could do with some parenting classes.

    I also think it is bizzare that you are criticising how she expressed her anger about it (in an email rather than face to face). Honestly if I found out someone had supplied my underage child with alcohol I probably wouldn’t want a face to face confrontation for fear of doing something I would regret.

    Post # 14
    Member
    195 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Nevermind the lil sis/alcohol bit…thats trivial.

    You mum is another type of drug to you and shes Toxic. Sorry but if it were me I’d move on with life and let her do the begging and running around and making up for the pain she’s caused.

    Get away before your little one is affected by it too.

    Post # 16
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    195 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    And don’t let little sister take pics and vids. 

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