- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
Well the wedding is 17 or so days away. I had issues with the groomsmen (mainly my fh and his family not being on the same page and trying to add extra ppl) Well now I am trying to contact the bridesmaids about bachelorette weekend coming up (I live out of state from everyone else) and give info about the rehearsal dinner. I already had an original bridesmaid back out and another bridesmaid drag on me till a couple weeks ago and just up and quit. There is one (FH sis n law) who is a bridesmaid which I am unsure about. I don’t know if she got her dress nor do I know anything of what’s going on. We were fine a couple weeks ago but now its weird. I have called numerous times trying to get in contact with her about things and no answer. I have left messages. I have sent her stuff on facebook. No answer. Conveniently I then see her leave stuff for other ppl such as one friend who is having a baby within the next week or so.
I don’t know what to do. I know we all have lives but to me if you can write paragraphs on your friend’s facebook why can’t you just show me you’re alive or something. If you can write about your kids going to school and whatever else is happening in your life why can’t you answer the phone or write something back. The girl is in school, has kids, and works but to me that is not an excuse. When I think about it it’s actually pissing me off some lol
Point is I have been having a little anxiety due to the “ghost” and now I don’t know how to handle the situation. Should I keep trying even though I’ve tried over 15 times now or let it go. Should I even care? Ugh…..