- 3 years ago
- Wedding: June 2014
My fiance and I have been engaged for 3 years already. We have not had the money for the wedding so we’ve been buying things slowly that we can before the planning. The only thing he’s done is get his suit and i’ve dragged him shopping a few times to look for random things like DIY stuff and my dress for the wedding. But i’ve found that this is the time to start the rest and get married next year. I’ve asked him to help me with things , like the music list and what not, so that it’s less stressful because it seems i’ll be planning the entire wedding myself ( which is very stressful ). He hasn’t even chosen his groomsmen or done the music list ( i’ve done a lot of that too ) . He’s also buying all this “hobby” stuff that I find stupid. But yet he talks about wanting to get a house after we are married. He hasn’t saved any money. And to top it off he barely helps around the house. I’ve done the majority of everything even with me giving him some easier things . He takes out the garbage and cooks ( which isn’t very often and I cook once in a while ) . I finally stopped doing his laundry. We don’t even have kids yet. I don’t want to be picking up after 3 people and myself. Yes he works 6 days a week, and half the time long hours.But it was no different before he was working this much. I just expect a little more. And saving money would be nice, and helping to plan the wedding a bit would be nice too. I havn’t booked the hall yet because i’m a little skeptical . I’m worried i’m gunna end up paying most of everything. So I told him I need some money and i’m not booking the hall until I get it. But I may lose the hall becasue I want to have the wedding June 2014. I don’t want to wait another year after that. I want to get a house and start a family.
Wonder too if anyones fiances are helping them a great deal with wedding plannig/ into the whole thing? Please don’t be harsh I just want a nice solution.
He really is great guy though and I know he loves me. He’s just … frustrating me !!