(Closed) What should I do? (shower question, long!)

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
2854 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Maybe instead of calling it a shower, just have a party (like the bachelorette dinner). Be totally up front about why you’re having it – you’re having a small family wedding, you can’t invite everyone, but you want to celebrate with the people close to you. No gifts necessary. If someone really wants to gift you, they’ll ask your family for the info.

Post # 5
3364 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

I honestly do not see the harm in a having just intimate bridal festivities! Make it how ever you want it and share it with the ones you want there. Im thankful that many of our friends understand our position in doing this on our own; but they still want to celebrate with us at some point! xo

You can always put “no gifts” on your invites if you are worried about that being an issue. But most will want to GIVE! =)

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