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What should I do with my dress?

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    Miss Burgundy    May 28, 2010   Southern California

    We just got married a couple of weeks ago and yesterday I finally retrieved my dress from my in-laws (who were holding it while we were honeymooning). We got married in Yosemite, and took pictures all over the place, so of course the hem of the dress is quite dirty. Otherwise the dress held up pretty well and I would say it is in overall good condition.

    I am still trying to figure what exactly to do with the dress- I don't really have any desire to keep it, but I am not sure whether it is in good enough condition to be sold, and I haven't gotten a cleaning estimate yet but I think it might be really expensive to clean. I would only sell it if I could overall come out on top (so, if the dress costs $500 to clean but I could only make $500 on it, I would only be breaking even).

    I'm not opposed to donating the dress to charity if I can't make any money off of it, but I don't want to have to clean it before donating it (normally I would clean it, but the whole point of donating it would be so that I don't have to spend any more money on it!)

    Do you guys have any advice? Thanks!

     
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    MissAsB    June 6, 2009   Married in CO, Living in AL

    I'm sure you can donate the dress without cleaning it.  They will either clean it themselves or sell it as is.

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    I agree, I'd donate.  Making money on a dress that hasn't even been worn yet is difficult sometimes.  If you donate it I'm sure cleaning it is part of the normal process for them.

     
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    ddubzz    June 5, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    I'm thinking about donating mine to Brides Against Breast Cancer... hoping it doesn't cost too much to ship it to them (my dress is heavy)!  :)

     
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    mishelleez    November 5, 2010   DW- Bahamas

    You could try selling it. Most dresses need to get re-hemed anyway. I know my local used wedding dress shop takes dresses if the hem is dirty.

     
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    aunt pol    May 7, 2011   Ireland

    If you're gonna have kids I'd say wait til then and get a christening gown cut out of it.

     
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    mcnetn3    August 13, 2011   North Carolina

    I agree with the christening gown or baby blanket idea.

     
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    Miss Burgundy    May 28, 2010   Southern California

    Getting a christening gown cut out of it or a baby blanket is a super cute idea that I didn't even think of! We aren't really planning for kids right now though...so I'm just not sure.

    I'm still thinking about it but these are great ideas! If I donated it I don't think I would want to ship it...maybe there's a local charity or something.

     
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    Ella1978    June 19, 2010   Cleveland, Ohio

    Just to let you know, my seamstress said that for the best chance of getting the dress clean of all the staining, it has to be done w/in the first 30 days.  It's not even so much the dirt on the bottom, but the oils that the body secretes that can stain & discolor the dress.

    I'm not saying you shouldn't donate, just wanted to give you a heads up!

     
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    retreadbride    July 31, 2011   bristol PA

    I once took a bm dress and made stuffed bunny rabbits for all the bridal party member.  You could try that as well-- Im told one of the bm granddaughers loves it;- 2 generations passed down.

     

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